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I need advice, We are pregnant
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( SamTimberland )


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Hi, first time poster, long time reader.  I am in a lot of trouble and need your help.

I in Japan with my folks who are military and I did something really stupid with my girlfriend.  We decided to do it without a rubber and I came in her mouth.  I didn't know but she told me she is pregnant.  I guess maybe she rubbed her hands there or something but I am sure it is mine and I want to be a responsible father.

What should be my first step to making sure that she knows that I want her to get an abortion, but if not I will support her?

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camillelong 26


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talk to her about what she plans to do with the baby and tell her you'll be there with her all the way

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Helpme1111


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wow pro kill babies...its so unfair to the child...put it up for adoption and let a nice American family get it.
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( SamTimberland )


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Quote: from Helpme1111 at 12:09 pm on June 22, 2008
wow pro kill babies...its so unfair to the child...put it up for adoption and let a nice American family get it.

She is Japanese, it will go to one of the locals and I don't support the raising of my child by pagans and demon worshippers.

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taraxgoesxboom


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You're absolutely sure it's yours? or that she's actually pregnant?

Because if you came in her mouth it's highly unlikely you got her pregnant.

I suppose just talk to her and *ask* if she plans on keeping it and then  calmly tell her your opinion, but if she decides to keep it you'll be there for her and the baby.

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RahRahReplica


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Even if you pull out before you cum you can still get her preg because pre-cum contains sperm. Not just because she rubbed her hands there.

Watch out for STIs by the way.

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Iron Hymen - Abstinence Only Coolness
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Quote: from SamTimberland at 12:10 pm on June 22, 2008
Quote: from Helpme1111 at 12:09 pm on June 22, 2008
wow pro kill babies...its so unfair to the child...put it up for adoption and let a nice American family get it.

She is Japanese, it will go to one of the locals and I don't support the raising of my child by pagans and demon worshippers.

So you're Christian? But you think it's ok to kill the baby... gotcha. Doesn't sound hypocritical at all. Just tell her how you feel.

12:12 pm on June 22, 2008
( SamTimberland )


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Quote: from taraxgoesxboom at 12:11 pm on June 22, 2008
You're absolutely sure it's yours? or that she's actually pregnant?

Because if you came in her mouth it's highly unlikely you got her pregnant.  

I suppose just talk to her and *ask* if she plans on keeping it and then  calmly tell her your opinion, but if she decides to keep it you'll be there for her and the baby.

Well she told me she was pregnant and she had no reason to lie to me and I noticed she was gaining a little weight (2 or 3 pounds I think).  She says she is about 3 months along.

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Quote: from RahRahReplica at 12:12 pm on June 22, 2008
Even if you pull out before you cum you can still get her preg because pre-cum contains sperm. Not just because she rubbed her hands there.

Watch out for STIs by the way.

I never came in there, or even ut it in there, our contraception method was oral and usually oral with rubbers.  I tried anal but it was too hard.

Couldn't she have liked fingered herself after I came in her and made herself pregnant?  THat is my theory.

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RahRahReplica


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Quote: from taraxgoesxboom at 8:11 pm on June 22, 2008
You're absolutely sure it's yours? or that she's actually pregnant?

Because if you came in her mouth it's highly unlikely you got her pregnant.  

I got the impression that they had sex and then he pulled out and came in her mouth.

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( SamTimberland )


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Quote: from Anonymous at 12:12 pm on June 22, 2008
Quote: from SamTimberland at 12:10 pm on June 22, 2008
Quote: from Helpme1111 at 12:09 pm on June 22, 2008
wow pro kill babies...its so unfair to the child...put it up for adoption and let a nice American family get it.
 

 She is Japanese, it will go to one of the locals and I don't support the raising of my child by pagans and demon worshippers.

So you're Christian? But you think it's ok to kill the baby... gotcha. Doesn't sound hypocritical at all. Just tell her how you feel.

Better dead than a godless athiest or a buddhist.

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pipersgirl


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um u cant get pregnant if u cum in a girls mouth....damn i mean its called sexual education.. trust me if it was possible i would have atleast ten kids by now! ask her to take a pregancy test infront of you

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nobody puts baby in a corner
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michelletherockstar


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Umm .. Are you sure its yours?
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pipersgirl


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buy her a test and have her take it with you and you will see the results

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nobody puts baby in a corner
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michelletherockstar


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Quote: from SamTimberland at 1:15 pm on June 22, 2008
Quote: from RahRahReplica at 12:12 pm on June 22, 2008
Even if you pull out before you cum you can still get her preg because pre-cum contains sperm. Not just because she rubbed her hands there.  

 Watch out for STIs by the way.

I never came in there, or even ut it in there, our contraception method was oral and usually oral with rubbers. I tried anal but it was too hard.

Couldn't she have liked fingered herself after I came in her and made herself pregnant? THat is my theory.

Sperm dies like 5 seconds after it touches air. Its unlikely that she got pregnant that way.

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I wish I could make you see through the pain, through the end,
I wish I could make you see the greater purpose that I have to serve.

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