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self harming
what do you think
Replies: 119Last Post Jan. 11, 2006 2:13pm by just to feel
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Choice Votes Percent  
i dont really no 28 14%
i dont really care 8 4%
i do it so i cant really say anything 59 29%
i think its pathetic 26 13%
i use to do it but now i think its stupid 34 17%
i think it takes away depression 16 8%
i think it helps in life 16 8%
i think it should be illegal 11 5%
Vote Now! 198 Votes Cast
Ben Jammin


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I voted that I thought it was pathetic, because I do. And no myystic, it is not a valid coping mechanism, it is an excercise in escapism. Causing pain to yourself or others doesn't solve any problems, it just creates more.

But while I heartily disapprove of it, that desn't mean it "should be illegal", as hurting yourself does not impinge on the rights of others, and that is the primary concern of govenment.

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Quote: from Cute Lil Blondie at 5:23 pm on Jan. 23, 2005

I voted for it should be illegal because I don't think anyone should afflict pain upon themselves. Hurting yourself is like hurting another person. It just flat out isn't right and you shouldn't do it. No matter how mad or angry you are there are other ways to stop the pain then to cause even more pain to yourself.

how the hell do you make it illegal? Are cops gonna come by your house every now and then and say "show me your wrists?" i remember a little while back someone said that they should make suicide illegal. What are they gonna do if i end my life? Shoot me again? It is impossible to make things like this illegal.  I know that you shouldn't do it but its an addiction. I really wish I hadn't made that first cut. Im trying to go straight edge on it but it really is hard. But, there is pain that no one can imagine. I understand why someone would cut themselves.

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I just dont understand the thought process behind "wow I feel like shit so I guess I'm gonna go cut the shit out of my skin cause that will make me feel better."  To me it seems like that would just make me feel even more like shit cause not only would I still feel bad in my head but now I would be  getting blood everywhere.  

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crazyallan


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honestly I think all that cutting shit is a bunch of bullshit. All what stupid cutter want si just attention. There are better ways of letting anger out and also many other ways of getting attention. if you harm yourslef you show your lack of coomunication and high ignorance of todays society. All y'all cuuters out there got two words for you "try again" type your post here

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Gillibiabtiag

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Quote: from afichic4life9872 at 6:45 pm on Jan. 26, 2005

Quote: from Cute Lil Blondie at 5:23 pm on Jan. 23, 2005

I voted for it should be illegal because I don't think anyone should afflict pain upon themselves. Hurting yourself is like hurting another person. It just flat out isn't right and you shouldn't do it. No matter how mad or angry you are there are other ways to stop the pain then to cause even more pain to yourself.

how the hell do you make it illegal? Are cops gonna come by your house every now and then and say "show me your wrists?" i remember a little while back someone said that they should make suicide illegal. What are they gonna do if i end my life? Shoot me again? It is impossible to make things like this illegal.  I know that you shouldn't do it but its an addiction. I really wish I hadn't made that first cut. Im trying to go straight edge on it but it really is hard. But, there is pain that no one can imagine. I understand why someone would cut themselves.


The tragic part, suicide is illegal, in the form of attempting suicide being illegal.
And why is it that whenever someone has no proof to back up their argument, they always say "I have pain that no-one can imagine!"


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BabySmiler


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i used 2 cut myself, but not severely, but then i realised i was about to lose my family and my boyfriend, and my friends, i couldnt take that risk so i had help to make me stop and now i dont doit anymore

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osmoticdespair


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If you make sure to keep impliments clean, to disinfect wounds etc, then fine its perfectly acceptable imho, so long as you don't parade it infront of others for sympathy.
...but who bothers with all that aseptic technique crap eh?

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depressedfreak


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Cutting has helped me in so many ways. But, then again, its better than suicide, and it keeps me feeling alive. Then again, i'm psycho and f'ed up in the head.

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BabyWild


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well, does commiting suicide (sorta) count as self harming? no cutting or any self mutilation involved...
because that would change my vote .

anyways, in the last couple of days i've been trying to figure out why people cut. i've read some of that big thread in this forum, and some other threads, and i still don't get it. of all the reasons in the world, the only one that really seems true, is a cry for attention.

personally, i fear papercuts even.


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Eh, I voted for pathetic. I don't look down on cutters in general - cutting's just something they do and I tend to totally ignore it unless they actually bring it up, but I still think it's a weak and useless way to try and cope with problems. Won't get you anywhere. It's better than some alternatives, I guess, so hey, if you think it helps you for the time being, go ahead. I wouldn't know, not having been right there myself.

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i did it once, but that was a long time ago now, i think it is stupid

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Quote: from chuckibladez at 9:58 pm on Jan. 29, 2005

i did it once, but that was a long time ago now, i think it is stupid

thanx lozy

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tama chan myuh


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I don't think it's pathetic-- I think it's a cry for help.

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Quote: from tama chan myuh at 10:10 pm on Feb. 16, 2005

I don't think it's pathetic-- I think it's a cry for help.
in some ways i want it to be but no one comes to help

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