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About a year ago, I was raped and I ended up being pregnant. I didn't tell my parents that I was raped, they thought I willingly had sex with him (he was my boyfriend at the time) and they didn't know I was pregnant. Well, around four months I ended up getting jumped, I guess you could call it (I went to an almost all black school, and they jump white people for the fun of it) and I ended up losing the baby. I've never really told anybody but it still hurts to think about. And I've always had nightmares about it ever since, I've always found some way to blame myself. Even after a year, is this normal?
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Let Love In
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Yes, it's normal. You should consider seeing a therapist to talk about this.
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JC
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woah dude...u shud probly get counselling
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GaelicFreak
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Of course. You went through several traumatic experiences, one after another.
You should tell someone. Talking about it will help you get through it.
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IamMelissa
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lm Sorry. you got attached to the baby, didn't you? It will be hard. and its still normal. you need to talk to Someone. It might help alot.Iwas raped when was 16 and talking to Someone helped me about. Good Luck.
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purplefrenchfry
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I'm terribly sorry that happened to you. Although, you shouldn't blame yourself at all. The rape, nor losing the baby, was your fault whatsoever. Not even a tiny bit. It was not your fault. Even if you 'find a reason to blame yourself', it's not true--none of it was your fault. I would say that regardless if it has been a year, I think it'll still be in the back of your head. Traumas like that take a long time to get through, and it takes some effort. If everything were as simple as putting things in the back of your head and forgetting, then no one would have problems. Unfortunately, you have yet to get through it. I would suggest getting some treatment from a therapist to help you get through everything. Talking does more than you think, and it could really help you with the trauma you went through, with the rape, getting jumped and losing the baby, etc. I hope everything works out for the best. :)
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kt66166
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omg im sry u should go and see someone
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