i have always been the type of girl who wants to build a successful career, get married, have kids and live happily ever after, preferrably in that order (i know, fairy-tale right?) but right now i feel like the career part is gonna hold me back from the rest of my life. I did well in HS and graduated w/ Honors so i'm not completely stupid n_n but i love to do so many things that i can't find a job i could stick with forever and be happy. I'm artsy so I've considered Game developer, Advertising, custom painter, photographer, writer, etc. also quit college i was attending for Culinary Arts. Also Marine Biologist, Homicide Det., etc. but all have cons that beat the pros. And starting a business is a big risk and takes a bit of capital which i would lose if my business failed.
Now is where my own girly-ness gets in the way
. I'm 22 and i know that certain degrees would take me till i'm 30 or darn near 40 to get and i want school out of the way before i have kids and get married... loans, mortgages, and college saving for the kids do NOT MIX! i can't wait to start what i think of as "real life" but having no set career in life makes me feel stuck in one spot i don't dig the housewife path i want to make my own money and I refuse to bring kids into a household that can't support them. duh! Been considering vet school, i love animals, anyone attending have input?
Anyone else feel this way, or DID before they found the job for them?
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when will i win the lottery?