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Why is she acting like this? :S
Replies: 4Last Post May 6 8:02am by freak15
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I have this friend called Becky, and I thought that we were both getting along just fine. Last week she suggested that we should do something again, and I agreed that it would be a good idea. I asked her a couple of days after what she wanted to do, then she said something about having psychology coursework. I thought fair enough, and didn't say anything more about it. We saw each other today and I asked her whether she wanted to do something once her psychology coursework was finished, which gives her the option of telling me when she's free. Anyway, she just made some excuse up about revising for the psychology exam. Why would she get so passionate about a subject that she's openly admitted to hating? Do you think this is just a polite way of saying she doesn't like me? When I asked, despite saying 'yeah' she then made up excuses for postponing arrangements.  

I can see her tomorrow if I want as she'll be around at break. I don't know whether I should act distant too. What do you think?

Thanks!

Post edited at 7:32 am on May 6, 2008 by Ad libitum

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shes prob just busy, if she initiated asking you to do something in the first place..

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Quote: from Jibbles at 3:32 pm on May 6, 2008

shes prob just busy, if she initiated asking you to do something in the first place..

Yes, that's a point.

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If she hates the subject, she might want to study it harder, to make sure she gets enough information on it. I know when I hate a subject (maths), I want to study it harder to make sure I take it in, or else I know I won't ever end up doing it, and probably fail it all together.

She could be busy, too, and she might want to let you down gently, or said what she did because whatever came up is important, and she might be hoping you'll believe it and understand.

I don't think she has anything against you, though, as she told you she wanted to make plans. Something just probably came up and she doesn't want to feel like she's let you down or a bad/unreliable friend.

She does like you though, because if she never, she wouldn't have came up with a pretty reasonable excuse, and she wouldn't have asked to make plans in the first place. Unless something bad has happened between you guys and she's mad. Which you never said anything about, so I doubt it did.

Just ask her if she can make plans some other time; maybe ask her if she wants to go to the cinema or into town on Saturday or something, and see what her reaction is.

Don't distance from her, she probably just didn't want to let you down. :)

Post edited at 8:05 am on May 6, 2008 by PineappleKiss


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i dont think you should act distant because that way you might loose a friend =[
mayb you should try and make things up withher
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