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Lonely, i'm so lonely.
Replies: 17Last Post May 12 9:14am by abiloo
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Without sounding needy, the subject of this post is:
I need a nice boyfriend.

Over the last few months i've got involved with a line of guys who have all treated me badly, in different ways all of them just ended up using me for sex, and they didn't really care about me.

And i am a very needy girl for attention, and i don't mean in a spolit way, i mean in a way that i like to have kisses and cuddles.

I'm feeling so sad for myself right now, i really want to find a nice, kind guy who can treat me how i deserve to be treated.

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I just want to feel wanted/fancied/attractive/loved.


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i know how you feel, and i hope that you find what you are looking for soon.

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Hey if u live in london i can i be ur bf!!!

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So try very hard and look there are guys like that but unfortunately  most men love sex too much to realise they're hurting the girls feelings.

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hey

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Sometimes it isn't easy to find a nice guy who can fulfill your needs, you might be waiting around a while before you do.  In the meantime though, keep looking around and don't fall into the trap of getting with the wrong guy.

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Quote: from moonkin at 12:42 pm on May 12, 2008

Hey if u live in london i can i be ur bf!!!


No, i don't live in london, or very close to there, why london? You live in america don't you?

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Quote: from abiloo at 4:45 am on May 12, 2008

Quote: from moonkin at 12:42 pm on May 12, 2008

Hey if u live in london i can i be ur bf!!!

 
No, i don't live in london, or very close to there, why london? You live in america don't you?



no, I live in London. Just can't set my country to it :(

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Perhaps one should try thinking before dating, Rather than clinging to the leg of every man who tries to date you.

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Quote: from Iaintmarchingnemore at 1:12 pm on May 12, 2008

Perhaps one should try thinking before dating, Rather than clinging to the leg of every man who tries to date you.

Woah. don't say that before you know my situation!
One guy who messed me about i was with for 7 months.
The second guy, ok it was on the rebound from the last boyfriend, and i was silly to ever get with him becus i knew he was married from the start, but i was vunerable and he took adnatage.
And the 3rd guy, i so wasn't interested in him, and i can't even remember doing anything with him because i was out of my face at the time, but it did happen and he has been charged with raping me.

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don't you like anyone from your school or around where you live?

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Well, the first problem is your apparent poor judgment. You say that you have been used by several guys for sex recently. In your last post, you talk about be used for sex by three guys for sex in one month, one of whom was some married, traveling business man. Do the words, "slow down, stop spreading your legs like butter in the August sun" mean anything to you? How do you expect to find someone who is going to actually care for you and form a meaningful relationship with you when you seem to be giving up for whoever comes along? Maybe next time you will realize that a married guy who is just passing through from time to time is not the ideal candidate. Maybe when you meet an interesting guy who's interested in you, you will take the time to get to know him, stay out of dangerous, compromised situations, and maybe let a relationship develop before you're having sex with him.

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Quote: from Duke at 1:18 pm on May 12, 2008

Well, the first problem is your apparent poor judgment. You say that you have been used by several guys for sex recently. In your last post, you talk about be used for sex by three guys for sex in one month, one of whom was some married, traveling business man. Do the words, "slow down, stop spreading your legs like butter in the August sun" mean anything to you? How do you expect to find someone who is going to actually care for you and form a meaningful relationship with you when you seem to be giving up for whoever comes along? Maybe next time you will realize that a married guy who is just passing through from time to time is not the ideal candidate. Maybe when you meet an interesting guy who's interested in you, you will take the time to get to know him, stay out of dangerous, compromised situations, and maybe let a relationship develop before you're having sex with him.


Woah! the ravelling business man was the only one that i slept with quickly! The first one, was the first guy i ever slept with, and i didnt sleep with him untill i loved him, we took it real slow.
And the last one? Hello, i was raped. That meant i didn't want to sleep with him, so how can u accuse me of being easy when he raped me?

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im srry for ur boy trouble, boys suck but how will asking for a boyfriend on lw helps u...u cant date over intro-net

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I agree with Duke on some level. Sex will not build a healthy relationship. It might make the guy stay for a while but eventually he will leave because either; 1) Not all guys want just sex in a relationship, some of us are actually OK and want to be in love. 2) He's only in it for the sex and everything else will get old. The point is, you have to take it slow and don't jump into bed if they interest you. My first time was with a girl I was absolutely in love with and we waited a year before we had sex, and it STILL didn't work out. So just take it slow, and wait. Sex isn't supposed to be the most important thing, and if it is the most important thing then thats all you have, NOT a relationship.

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