It's not exactly a problem, because it hasn't had time to really develop. whenever I do anything sexual with my boyfriend I feel like a wh*re afterwards. I enjoy it in the moment, but feel dirty afterwards. I think it's related to my past abuse/rape, which he knows about. We're both virgins, because he thinks that I shouldn't make myself too "scared." Now that I've told him about these feelings I have he says that we'll take a complete break from those kinds of things. I appreciate that he does this for me, for us. But don't want to keep him waiting. I know that he just wants me to feel comfortable with him, but there must be another way.
I am seeing a therapist, so no one suggest that. I need at home solutions.
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