I know theres alot of toppics like this, but none that actually answer my specific question.

try a diff guy and see if its the same if not its you..

as far as solving the problem...you could try mutual masturbation? something fun that we've done is take a shower together, and i suck him off while i use the shower head on myself. just an idea.

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GUYS JUST SUCK.

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that's a very common problem. i've only had a handful of orgasms by my boyfriend, after two years.  

as far as solving the problem...you could try mutual masturbation? something fun that we've done is take a shower together, and i suck him off while i use the shower head on myself. just an idea.

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I dont know if mutual masterbation would work. I couldnt get turned on enough, because I'm shy and it'd be way to awkard.

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Quote: from oliveohm at 7:36 pm on May 11, 2008

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that's a very common problem. i've only had a handful of orgasms by my boyfriend, after two years.  

 as far as solving the problem...you could try mutual masturbation? something fun that we've done is take a shower together, and i suck him off while i use the shower head on myself. just an idea.

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I dont know if mutual masterbation would work. I couldnt get turned on enough, because I'm shy and it'd be way to awkard.

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well. if you're uncomfortable about this kind of stuff, maybe that's the problem. you need to let yourself relax. i've never been able to have an orgasm if i'm tense or stressed out or shy.

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Okay so I have a problem.
Whenever I've been with a guy, they are always unable to make me orgasm. Weather it be foreplay or during sex.
I seem to be the only person who can make me orgasm.
Is this normal?
Or do the guys just suck?

I know theres alot of toppics like this, but none that actually answer my specific question.

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My boyfriend can't make me orgasm either. Yet I can make myself orgasm in only a few minutes.

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Right now you are the youngest you will ever be,
and the oldest you have ever been.

Orgasms take a surprising amount of work, and it isn't necessarily anyone's "fault" if they don't happen. It's a mutual effort. He doesn't magically know what to do to make you feel good, and it's all a journey. Just as you would want to make him feel good, he wants the same for you.

Sometimes it just takes time, and, yes, sometimes you do get stuck with a bad, fulfilling, or insensitive partner, but that doesn't mean that you are unable to orgasm. For women, orgasms are much more mental. If you have stress on your mind or worry about not being able to orgasm, or if you feel uncomfortable, it is much harder to achieve them. For men, it's generally easier (as in, if they have an issue orgasming, it is most likely a physical problem). Just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean that it won't. It can take a lot of time and a lot of learning about yourself and your partner, but it seems to get easier with time and experience.

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So when you're happy (Hurray!), or sad (Aw!),
Or frightened (Eeek!), or mad (Rats!)
An interjection starts a sentence right.