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no.
you are just an idiot

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You're really pissing me off.

And yes sweetie. It sounds like rape, And I think you need to tell someone or report it, because he could do it again. Not only did he take advantage, but he ignored your request for him to stop. Tell someone!

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Quote: from norock at 5:24 pm on May 11, 2008

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Quote: from littlewing at 7:23 pm on May 11, 2008

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Yes it was rape. Im sorry hun.  He took advantage of you.  Don't ever get yourself in that position again and go to the police.

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 Fuck you.  

 you people ruin people's lives.

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Seriously, OP you didn't do a damn thing about it. You were both wasted as fuck and a mistake happened. Don't report this guy, that would be a fucked up thing to do.

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But he took advantaged of her and raped her while she was under the influence.

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Quote: from norock at 7:24 pm on May 11, 2008

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No its not. if you "realize" that you are having sex it is NOT rape.  
 the guy was probably fucked up too, he hears "no" so he puts it off, then he starts taking off clothes, and starts having sex, with no "hey, stop what are you doing"  

 what was he supposed to think?

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She said no, he kept going. End of story. That is rape. Delve into it all you want, but you're just making yourself look stupid.

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Bull shit.

she said no at first, sure.
But saying no once, then ALLOWING someone to have sex with you does not equal saying "no, NO, I said NO, now stop!" and then him forcefully taking advantage of you.

two drunk kids going back to the dorm, making out, you saying "i don't want to have sex" then taking off all of your clothes and allowing him to have sex with you is NOT rape any way you cut it.

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Lol, u got raped.

Too late reporting it now, SUCKA

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Look dickhead she can report it. just cause she got drunk does not mean she deserves to get raped no one does.

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Quote: from The Raven at 7:25 pm on May 11, 2008

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Quote: from norock at 7:24 pm on May 11, 2008

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No its not. if you "realize" that you are having sex it is NOT rape.  
  the guy was probably fucked up too, he hears "no" so he puts it off, then he starts taking off clothes, and starts having sex, with no "hey, stop what are you doing"    

  what was he supposed to think?

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 She said no, he kept going. End of story. That is rape. Delve into it all you want, but you're just making yourself look stupid.

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Bull shit.

she said no at first, sure.  
But saying no once, then ALLOWING someone to have sex with you does not equal saying "no, NO, I said NO, now stop!" and then him forcefully taking advantage of you.

two drunk kids going back to the dorm, making out, you saying "i don't want to have sex" then taking off all of your clothes and allowing him to have sex with you is NOT rape any way you cut it.

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You sure are making it out to seem like you were there watching this all happen. You're adding in details the OP never even gave, numbnuts.

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Quote: from littlewing at 7:23 pm on May 11, 2008

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Yes it was rape. Im sorry hun. He took advantage of you. Don't ever get yourself in that position again and go to the police.

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Fuck you.

you people ruin people's lives.

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And how the fuck do i do that?

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Quote: from moonkin at 4:23 pm on May 11, 2008

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Lol, u got raped.  

 Too late reporting it now, SUCKA

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Look dickhead she can report it. just cause she got drunk does not mean she deserves to get raped no one does.

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1. Two kids get drunk
2. the girl invites the guy back to HER DORM.
3. the two start making out, in HER DORM.
4. she says, "I don't want to have sex" [or at least she thinks she does, after all, she REALIZED she was having sex]
5. clothes start coming off.
6. more making out, touching
7. clothes are off [maybe not, but the two sex organs are definately readily available.
8. not another peep about not having sex
9. sex occurs.
10. she does nothing to stop the sex while it is happening, nor does she even say stop [according to what she has told us so far]

HOW does that constitute rape.
this is what the kid was thinking

1. SWEET im making out with this chick at her place, dont have to worry about waking up my roomie.
2. ah, shucks, no sex tonight, maybe she'll change her mind.
3. fuck i am wasted, hope i don't puke and ruin this night
4. sweet she's taking her shirt off.
5. better take off mine.
6. so far so good, maybe she changed her mind.
7. yep, changed her mind alright.
8. woopie! sex.

idiots. also, he stopped after she told him too. then tried again, and there was no "I SAID STOP" from her.

sometimes girls are shy you know. I mean I'VE never done that, personally, i'd rather a responsive girl than a wasted one, but..

Post edited at 4:35 pm on May 11, 2008 by norock

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Quote: from norock at 5:24 pm on May 11, 2008

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Quote: from littlewing at 7:23 pm on May 11, 2008

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Yes it was rape. Im sorry hun. He took advantage of you. Don't ever get yourself in that position again and go to the police.

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 Fuck you.  

 you people ruin people's lives.

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Seriously, OP you didn't do a damn thing about it. You were both wasted as fuck and a mistake happened. Don't report this guy, that would be a fucked up thing to do.

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So are you saying rapists should not be punished.  I thought you would know the law.  She never consented it was rape he should be punished to bad if his life is fucked shouldn't get drunk and rape someone then.

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No its not. if you "realize" that you are having sex it is NOT rape.
the guy was probably fucked up too, he hears "no" so he puts it off, then he starts taking off clothes, and starts having sex, with no "hey, stop what are you doing"  

what was he supposed to think?

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He was sober actually.