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I'm not saying that.

What i'm saying is think about HIS side before shouting RAPE, and ruining his life.

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Um...did you miss the part where I got raped?
Why should I worry about ruining his life?

then he tried again, at which point you did NOT stop him.

how was he supposed to think he was raping you when you just let it happen the second time.

agreed, that kid is a douche for trying again, and you shouldn't hang out with him. but come on now.

that is far away from physical rape.

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You were making out with him.
and you didn't stop the penetration
and he stopped when you DID say to stop.

then he tried again, at which point you did NOT stop him.

how was he supposed to think he was raping you when you just let it happen the second time.

agreed, that kid is a douche for trying again, and you shouldn't hang out with him. but come on now.

that is far away from physical rape.

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I told him from the beginning I didn't want to have sex.  How hard is that to understand?

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Quote: from norock at 5:02 pm on May 11, 2008

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You were making out with him.  
 and you didn't stop the penetration  
 and he stopped when you DID say to stop.  

 then he tried again, at which point you did NOT stop him.  

 how was he supposed to think he was raping you when you just let it happen the second time.  

 agreed, that kid is a douche for trying again, and you shouldn't hang out with him. but come on now.  

 that is far away from physical rape.

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I told him from the beginning I didn't want to have sex.  How hard is that to understand?

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Quote: from norock at 5:02 pm on May 11, 2008

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You were making out with him.
  and you didn't stop the penetration
  and he stopped when you DID say to stop.

  then he tried again, at which point you did NOT stop him.

  how was he supposed to think he was raping you when you just let it happen the second time.

  agreed, that kid is a douche for trying again, and you shouldn't hang out with him. but come on now.

  that is far away from physical rape.

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 I told him from the beginning I didn't want to have sex. How hard is that to understand?

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Did you not take off your clothes after you made out with him? This is something you have failed to address. Why the hell would you take off your clothes? What do you think is going to come from that? Of course he thought you wanted to have sex with him if your taking off your clothes.

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He took off my pants.  

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Quote: from Acustico23 at 5:04 pm on May 11, 2008

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Quote: from Anonymous at 6:03 pm on May 11, 2008

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Quote: from norock at 5:02 pm on May 11, 2008

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You were making out with him.    
   and you didn't stop the penetration    
   and he stopped when you DID say to stop.    

   then he tried again, at which point you did NOT stop him.    

   how was he supposed to think he was raping you when you just let it happen the second time.    

   agreed, that kid is a douche for trying again, and you shouldn't hang out with him. but come on now.    

   that is far away from physical rape.

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  I told him from the beginning I didn't want to have sex.  How hard is that to understand?

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 Did you not take off your clothes after you made out with him? This is something you have failed to address.  Why the hell would you take off your clothes? What do you think is going to come from that? Of course he thought you wanted to have sex with him if your taking off your clothes.

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He took off my pants.  

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Quote: from norock at 5:02 pm on May 11, 2008

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You were making out with him.  
 and you didn't stop the penetration  
 and he stopped when you DID say to stop.  

 then he tried again, at which point you did NOT stop him.  

 how was he supposed to think he was raping you when you just let it happen the second time.  

 agreed, that kid is a douche for trying again, and you shouldn't hang out with him. but come on now.  

 that is far away from physical rape.

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I told him from the beginning I didn't want to have sex.  How hard is that to understand?

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I'm sorry that you feel violated, really i am.
But what you don't understand is that there are a lot of girls who say the exact same thing, and then wind up sitting on top riding him reverse cowgirl. d'ya know what i mean?

Sometimes girls DO that, the "i don't want to have sex" thing and then keep making out, this leads to that, etc. BAM! sex.

I don't know how many times you said it and how forcefully, but seriously, it did not sound like rape.

again, it sounds weird, the guy sounds like a douche, and you sound like you make some terrible choices when you are drunk, but it does not sound like rape. close. but not rape.

maybe think next time you go out and get hammered and bring a guy back to your dorm.

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