FINALLY. me and my bf had a really productive conversation. things are looking up. we're really going to try to make it work.
the only thing i'm worried about is next year. we had plans to go to the same college, but it's looking like it may not happen.
do you think its worth it to TRY a long distance relationship? or should we be single when we're separate, and together when we see each other? or break it off completely? any thoughts/experiences would be appreciated!
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from my experience(s) long distance relationships don't work out at all, but i'd say it went that way for me because i need someone to be physically present to keep up a relationship really. i have trouble staying friends with people i don't see regularly. if you're willing to accept horny nights without sex, lonely nights without hugs, and boring nights without him, go for it.
Post edited at 7:45 pm on May 11, 2008 by iinsurgent
Hmmm, you're on a very hard situation oliveohm. Like what you have said, it MAY not happen, but there are still chances that you guys can still make it. I am telling you, long distance is not a good idea, there are lots of things that may happen. But good luck oliveohm.
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How long have you been together? if its been awhile.. then its worth a TRY. They rarely work though, so i'd just keep that in mind.
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Quote: from TashaTiffany at 7:46 pm on May 11, 2008
How long have you been together? if its been awhile.. then its worth a TRY. They rarely work though, so i'd just keep that in mind.
we've been together for over 2 and a half years. so, you can see why we'd want to try, at least...
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Quote: from TashaTiffany at 7:46 pm on May 11, 2008
How long have you been together? if its been awhile.. then its worth a TRY. They rarely work though, so i'd just keep that in mind.
we've been together for over 2 and a half years. so, you can see why we'd want to try, at least...
Yeah, i'd give it a shot. you never know, it may work. and since you guys have been together for so long, it has to mean something.
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how far apart? my bf and i will be 2 hours away from each other and very busy our first year of college so we aren't expecting to see each other too much, but we've been together for almost a year now and we love each other and are going to make it work
i think long distance relationships are worth it if you're willing to work for it
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How long have you been together? if its been awhile.. then its worth a TRY. They rarely work though, so i'd just keep that in mind. 
