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I'm too fucking fed up being disrepected
Replies: 16Last Post May 8 12:12pm by Jessings22
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It pissed the fuck out of me that when I go out, I get harassed by guys. I know I might sound like I'm whining but truth be told, it doesn't feel all that great getting perverted attention by guys. I know it might sound like I'm whining because I get attention, even if some girls crave that attention. I honestly feel so disgusted when they have the decency to try to get my attention by calling me "baby" or whistling. I just want a bit of respect and I know I can't do anything about it. I'm just fucking pissed off by the fact that women have to be dicrimiated against and treated like some object. I'm too fed up with going through this almost daily and I don't know what to do anymore. I've tried to stand up for myself but fights are not the answer that I'm looking for. Shit.

8:34 am on May 8, 2008
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You wanna stop being catcalled? Stop dressing so appealing; don't make yourself into an object of desire.

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Quote: from Micus at 11:35 am on May 8, 2008

You wanna stop being catcalled? Stop dressing so appealing; don't make yourself into an object of desire.

I don't wear clothes that show cleavage or anything, i'm not allowed.

Post edited at 8:37 am on May 8, 2008 by Anonymous


8:36 am on May 8, 2008
Brando Pernando


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#1) don't wear clothes that attract attention
#2) don't wear shirts/pants with the words " hot, juicy, yummy, sexy etc, written across them.
#3) don't wear low cut shirts
#4)don't wear skirts, period
#5)don't wear make up


if you cannot accomplish these five tasks, then obviously you are wearing these things to get some type of attention. You cant have it both ways.

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sorry

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Brando Pernando


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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:34 am on May 8, 2008

I'm just fucking pissed off by the fact that women have to be dicrimiated against and treated like some object. .

Ive been in a group of women when a attractive male walks by, you really don't treat us any better.

not that were whining about it though, we like the recognition

Post edited at 8:44 am on May 8, 2008 by Brando Pernando

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Quote: from Micus at 11:35 am on May 8, 2008

You wanna stop being catcalled? Stop dressing so appealing; don't make yourself into an object of desire.

"If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it..whose fault is it - the cats or the uncovered meat?

"The uncovered meat is the problem." -Sheik Taj Din al-Hilali

great logic there blaming the victims of sexual harassment.

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Quote: from snowfish at 8:45 am on May 8, 2008

Quote: from Micus at 11:35 am on May 8, 2008

You wanna stop being catcalled? Stop dressing so appealing; don't make yourself into an object of desire.

 "If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it..whose fault is it - the cats or the uncovered meat?

"The uncovered meat is the problem." -Sheik Taj Din al-Hilali

great logic there blaming the victims of sexual harassment.


AHHHH GHOSTS

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Quote: from snowfish at 11:45 am on May 8, 2008

great logic there blaming the victims of sexual harassment.

Oh so that's right nothing they do has any influence on how other people perceive them.

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Just walk around naked!!!

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liilbiit


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i hate that to.i wear sweat pants and a t-shirt to school all the time and still get whistled at..i dont want or need the attention i have a boyfriend..i dont dress to impress no one

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howaboutsno


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suck it up, they're idiots. you just have to deal with it.
n as if you're going to get in a fight with a guy for telling him to shut his face.

I don't see how it is disrespectful, but it is what you make it.

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Quote: from Brando Pernando at 8:37 am on May 8, 2008

#1) don't wear clothes that attract attention
#2) don't wear shirts/pants with the words " hot, juicy, yummy, sexy etc, written across them.
#3) don't wear low cut shirts
#4)don't wear skirts, period
#5)don't wear make up

 
if you cannot accomplish these five tasks, then obviously you are wearing these things to get some type of attention. You cant have it both ways.


thats stupid, i agree with the second 2, but its hot, why shouldn't i wear a skirt? if i get to warm i feel ill, girls should be able to wear skirts and guys not think its an invitation to be dicks.


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Quote: from Aqua Lily at 9:14 am on May 8, 2008

Quote: from Brando Pernando at 8:37 am on May 8, 2008

#1) don't wear clothes that attract attention  
 #2) don't wear shirts/pants with the words " hot, juicy, yummy, sexy etc, written across them.  
 #3) don't wear low cut shirts  
 #4)don't wear skirts, period  
 #5)don't wear make up  

 
 if you cannot accomplish these five tasks, then obviously you are wearing these things to get some type of attention. You cant have it both ways.


thats stupid, i agree with the second 2, but its hot, why shouldn't i wear a skirt? if i get to warm i feel ill, girls should be able to wear skirts and guys not think its an invitation to be dicks.


unfortunately, its not that simple, although you would like it to be.

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Quote: from Brando Pernando at 10:10 am on May 8, 2008

Quote: from Aqua Lily at 9:14 am on May 8, 2008

Quote: from Brando Pernando at 8:37 am on May 8, 2008

#1) don't wear clothes that attract attention  
  #2) don't wear shirts/pants with the words " hot, juicy, yummy, sexy etc, written across them.  
  #3) don't wear low cut shirts  
  #4)don't wear skirts, period  
  #5)don't wear make up  

     
  if you cannot accomplish these five tasks, then obviously you are wearing these things to get some type of attention. You cant have it both ways.


 

 thats stupid, i agree with the second 2, but its hot, why shouldn't i wear a skirt? if i get to warm i feel ill, girls should be able to wear skirts and guys not think its an invitation to be dicks.  
 


unfortunately, its not that simple, although you would like it to be.


but you make it sound like its girls fault, and it isnt. admittedly with some of the things you said (low cut tops, clothes with sexy written on etc) it would be the girls fault, but wearing dresses and skirts that aren't slutty or anything isn't her fault that she gets attention.


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