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Loss of a best friend
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Replies: 5Last Post May 6 9:58pm by DarkLink224
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( jc71corvette )


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I don't have my best friend anymore. Its been almost 2 years but we were really, really, really, close. I mean really close. And well it's over with, no longer friends. I don't need to explain why as it does not help with my question. My question is how do I get past this? She was the one I fell back to all the time and now shes gone. I know you will say get a new best friend, I know  I will but im kinda depressed because of this.

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ladybug2009


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im sorry=(

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LtrOusRtD


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It's alright to be depressed.. share you feelings as much as you want.. you will realize that is the best way to get over it by being able to talk about it..

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QueenofHope


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Try to focus on other things, I went through the same thing and actually wound up with her as my best friend again and now we're closer than ever.

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Seidell


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Did you two just stop being friends, or did she pass away? I lost my best friend back in January (both were in car accident) and it's just as hard then as it is now.

Post edited at 9:44 pm on May 6, 2008 by Seidell

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Rest in peace to my best friend Joshua of 16 years, born November 20, 1986,
passed away January 14, 2008. I'll see you soon, love you.


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DarkLink224


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So how did you two drift apart?

My ex-best friend and I used to be extremely close.  We considered ourselves to be truly brothers.  We did everything together.  We were always a package deal.  Most of time you couldn't get one without the other.

Sometime this summer though, it was getting apparent that I was really being completely dependent on him.  So he started to pull away.  When I saw that, I tried to get back in which only pushed him farther away.

Now we haven't spoken properly in a couple of months.

I found that instead of searching for a new person to just be dependent on, but built the existing relationships I had so I had more than one leg to fall on, so to speak.  I also hope that if he sees that I'm no longer completely dependent, we can rebuild our friendship.


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