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how can i POSSIBLY explain?!?!
Replies: 11Last Post May 6 2:52pm by Anonymous
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last september, at my sister's sweet sixteen, her best friend raped me.

all the while, the song that was playing was an Evanescence song.

now, i was with my best friend, and we were listening to his iPod, and he really likes 'bring me to life'. so he put it on. and i tried not to cry, and my heart started beating a million miles an hour.

and he asked why.

and i told him 'bad association'.


and he asked what.


i told him i'd tell him soon enough.

...how do i explain that?
will he think that crying for that reason is stupid?
will he get mad at me for ruining one of his favorite songs for him?


2:17 pm on May 6, 2008
awakenedbyspring


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he'll be mad at the other guy not you honey. it's not your fault.

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Micus


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You probably won't ruin it for him, just saying.

But no he won't think you're weird for crying.

He just won't play it anymore.

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Stephie xX


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noo. of course not.

its obviously the right thing to tell him.
and how would telling someone something about your own personal life going to affect the song they like listening to?


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ralili


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I think if he's a real friend he will understand and be there for you.

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Christian Slayar


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dont think he'll be mad about u ruining his song, he'll find another one

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AngelofUnmercy


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no, he's not gonna get mad at you over some song, just tell him, somebody needs to know sweetie, you should tell your sister of all people before he hurts her too

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xxLovExxISxxDeaDxx


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Just tell him that the song brings back really bad memories of at your sister's Sweet 16 when you were raped. Just ask him not to play that song when you're with him.

He shouldn't think it's stupid to cry for that reason. If he does, he's a jerk.

He most likely won't get mad for you telling him that his favorite song makes you think of something bad.

Post edited at 2:21 pm on May 6, 2008 by xxLovExxISxxDeaDxx

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Quote: from AngelofUnmercy at 2:19 pm on May 6, 2008

no, he's not gonna get mad at you over some song, just tell him, somebody needs to know sweetie, you should tell your sister of all people before he hurts her too

she doesn't believe me.
i told her once, and she said 'you disgust me'.

and then she told her best friend, and he and i...had a fight. like, a fist fight.

she doesn't believe me.


2:21 pm on May 6, 2008
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TELL 'EM THE TRUTH

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Phoenix27


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I'm sorry, but hilarity just ensued.

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Quote: from Phoenix27 at 2:26 pm on May 6, 2008

I'm sorry, but hilarity just ensued.

it's okay.
i understand.


2:52 pm on May 6, 2008
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