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do u think i am being selfish
Replies: 12 — Last Post May 10 11:31am by Duke
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( DrewElizabeth )


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my bf (we're engaged) wants to go into the army but i don't want him to go into it.....i like get really upset when we talk about it sometimes thats why i don't like it being brought up..am u being selfish not wanting him to go into it and getting really upset about it when we talk about it ? i think that i just don't want him to go caz i am scared i am going to lose him or something.....for the most part i am terrified about him going into the army

Post edited at 11:04 am on May 10, 2008 by DrewElizabeth

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bekkikins


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Yes.
You are.

It's his choice, and he has every right to leave you for not accepting it

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the5e


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depends on why you don't want him to go:

if it's because you're scared for him - no
if it's because you'd miss his favors - yes

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jessiepoooo


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you just dont want to lose him. i dont think it's selfish. too many people are dying out there, for no damn good reason at all.
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Uhhello


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Its not really selfish. But you have to accept that its what he wants to do and no matter how scared you are, support him :).
Its only natural to be worried and get upset when talking about it.
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HatesYou


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you're not being selfish, you're just worried about him. it's completely normal.

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( DrewElizabeth )


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Quote: from the5e at 2:03 pm on May 10, 2008
depends on why you don't want him to go:

if it's because you're scared for him - no
if it's because you'd miss his favors - yes

i'm scared to lose him

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emo4eva


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no ur not

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tennisplayerV2


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dude i have the same problem...let him go...its his dream
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LillJade


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You're not being selfish you're only showing how you truly feel and that is that you really love him and that you're scared to lose him its natural.
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carracer


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Quote: from the5e at 11:03 am on May 10, 2008
depends on why you don't want him to go:

if it's because you're scared for him - no
if it's because you'd miss his favors - yes

ditto

worrying for people you care about is pretty normal

but there is a point when you just need to support him and hope he will be alright

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Majo


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No, I don't think you're being selfish. When you're in love with someone, it's just sort of natural to want them to be happy and healthy and safe.

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Duke


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It's his life. It's only fair that you two discuss it, but it's his choice. Just going into the Army doesn't mean you will lose him; just as staying out of the Army doesn't mean you will keep him. Life changes, and there's not a whole lot to be done about it. People move into and out of our lives.
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