Well try prompting the question whther or not he may be gay or bi. But if he says he is straight then keep in mind he may be saying he cant remember because he doesnt want to have to deal with all the complications it could bring and i dont mean that with just you and him, i also mean it with other people around him. Family? Other friends? But it could be genuine amnesia as alcohol does tend to give some people. If he is someone you ARE close with would you be willing to risk that for an admission of sexuality. Some people can be really against it. When my friend of 8 yrs. came out to me i was shocked. But i love her regardless. (platonically like!) lol. But not all people are that open toward it. Another friend did not take it so well when our other friend came out to be gay. Dropping a crate of glasses and having allergy to him for weeks. People are different with different ideals and opinions.
If i were you i'd try to find out his opinion toward sexuality to avoid any unnessacary confrontation. If that is what you want.
Well done for coming to grips with it yourself and you do what you need to, and dont let anyone elses opinions hold you down, even if its discarding mine and following your heart. Do what makes you happy.
hope i helped in some small way and if you want to talk about ANYTHING. Dont hesitate to pm. me.
Take care,
love, keira.xoxo
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