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The only thing greater than white fear is white guilt.
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Quote: from 721 at 9:19 am on May 9, 2008

True or false. Are white people extra nice to black people

there's a bit of truth behind this


because they have guilt that they captured and forced a group of people from their homeland, crammed into ships of disease, vomit, and poop, and ended up to be oppressed and enslave for long ridiculous hours and minimal living space and food for a good oh... TWO-HUNDRED YEARS before someone finally stopped and thought "hm... maybe enslaving other HUMAN BEINGS is... immoral. maybe... just maybe God wouldn't like that."

but this isn't the reason behind it

See, America has made a lot of progress in terms of race relations since the Civil Rights Movement

problem is, we never finished the job; after we got to a certain point it's like we just sort of swept it under the rug.

and so we're told that there are no problems between the races in America; that now everyone is on equal footing.

The problem with that is that the people know different.  But now we can't have honest discussions about race without the fear of being accused of racism.

Which in turn breeds frustration and even resentment between the races, which is compounded by the lack of understanding between the races


oh, and the Europeans stopped kidnapping African slaves early on when they realized that they could just trade for them.

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Quote: from 721 at 9:33 am on May 9, 2008

I want my compensation! Black power!

those two statements don't belong together

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Quote: from KoopaTroopa at 1:15 pm on May 9, 2008

well you sound just like everyone else, just more intelligent. it almost sounded stereotypical, but as i once said, it'll probably be difficult for blacks to avoid the stereotypes given.

Stereotypes also tend to work as a self-fulfilling prophecy in a way.  You say that blacks tend to be shoot 'em up gangstas and you know?  Many will be, or at least try to portray themselves as such, as an expression of their identity as a black person.

But that's not to say that a black person cannot break this silly stereotype.  Everybody can contradict any stereotype they're given, and just about everybody does in some way in their lifetime.

No matter how much you explain why many blacks act the way they do, people still won't like them for it.  Portraying yourself as a cold hard gangsta who doesn't give a fuck about education, doing hard work, etc. does not reflect very favorably on the majority of society, especially on potential employers.


i work at a store where plenty of blacks go everyday, and a lot of the stereotypes are true. i'm not saying that using the race card is justified, but it's clear to me why it's difficult to get a job or go to school.

Think of it this way.  A hippy walks into a store and asks for an application to work there.  Would it be to anybody's surprise that the store would refuse to hire a guy whose hair length exceeds their shoulders, whose clothes are dirty and old, and who has a very anti-authority attitude?

The same thing very much applies to many blacks.  This can extend from the way they talk (even these "ghetto" accents can make a difference), the way they look (generally if one isn't dressed very fancy, as in experience I find most black applicants aren't, they aren't looked upon favorably - and the ones who do wear ties, black dress / work pants, etc. are the ones hired), their attitude, etc.  You'd be very hard pressed to say that racism applies to these situations, although that isn't to say that it can't.  It certainly does, but not nearly as often as many blacks and other people try to make it appear to be.


it's easy to say that opportunities are there, but society makes it difficult for them to achieve because they won't look past the stereotypes.

Remember, one who acts stereotypically will be treated stereotypically.  I guarantee you that if you're black and you wear glasses (even if fake), dressed in a nice business suit with a tie, and speak like you're educated, you will get a job that just about any white person would.

But we must also bear in mind that many of our standards were set by white people, hence why it's much easier for whites to adhere to them.  Regardless of how you fit into all of this, though, being able to act a certain way that makes people look favorably upon you isn't extraordinarily difficult, no matter the color of skin.  It just takes a little intelligence and stepping out of one's boundaries and mindset.


we can't pretend that discrimination isn't in full swing today. we just can't judge who's discriminating or not.

In full swing?  Even if you try arguing that many are racist implicitly, you'd still be very hard pressed trying to prove that statement.  You'd be far more successful at arguing that the business world and success are set by "white standards," hence the difficulty for other minorities to be as successful as it's not as intuitive for them, but if one is going to participate in such a world, one ought to be expected to adhere to these simple rules.

Like I keep saying, it's not difficult for blacks to become successful in most places in the US anymore.  I have seen many personal examples of black friends succeeding because they actually knew what they were doing, both in school and the work environment.  Saying that blacks are disadvantaged because of racism does nothing more than to hold blacks back.


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Why is slavery often regarding as a universally bad thing? I think that each case of slavery needs to be judged on an individual basis. It is quite possible that the quality of life of a black man may have been higher working for some rich magnate, instead of grovelling around as a peasant in some African country.

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Quote: from mountain hare at 12:34 am on May 11, 2008

Why is slavery often regarding as a universally bad thing? I think that each case of slavery needs to be judged on an individual basis. It is quite possible that the quality of life of a black man may have been higher working for some rich magnate, instead of grovelling around as a peasant in some African country.


Of course this is a good question, too, but remember that all well being is relative to one's surroundings.  You could be living in a dump, but when compared to your fellow neighbors in the dump, you might actually feel alright and pretty good about your life's situation.  On the other hand, if you're from the dump and slave under some wealthy man from the suburbs, life won't seem so great, will it?

Today, many blacks in the US live much better lives (materially, at least) than they would have if their ancestors had not been enslaved and taken to North America.  Regardless, it doesn't justify the slave trade nor does it excuse some longer term inequalities that would prevail as a result.  People just need to bear in mind that blacks are often just as responsible for their own well being and current situation as everybody else.


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Many will be, or at least try to portray themselves as such, as an expression of their identity as a black person.
True, it sucks. Worse part is, those that don't 'act black' get shit from other blacks, creating a feeling of isolation from both sides (i.e. being one of few or even the only black employee at a job with mostly or all white employees) at some point. My point is, it's another difficult situation whether he/she will try to overcome it or not. You know what, that's all I have to say about each comment you  made on my quote. You made valid points I guess, but they are pretty understood. We also shouldn't argue about personal examples, since there are far more blacks here, blacks that are most likely different from the ones you know (and even I have personal examples, same reason as yours). I feel like these types of arguments just go around in circles. There is no one to blame, and there's no way out of it until society evolves. It's just life...


yeah i'm not very argumentative, at all. i've never really posted in this forum...

Post edited at 1:18 am on May 11, 2008 by KoopaTroopa

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Quote: from KoopaTroopa at 1:00 am on May 11, 2008

True, it sucks. Worse part is, those that don't 'act black' get shit from other blacks, creating a feeling of isolation from both sides (i.e. being one of few or even the only black employee at a job with mostly or all white employees) at some point.

Of course.  There are many factors feeding into this issue perpetrated by all sides.

I personally think the main issue here is the entire emphasis on one's color of skin and/or race as a whole.  After all, why is a black person so much more different from a white person?  Are they not human?  Is a black American not the same kind of American as a white American?  Suggesting that blacks live one way and whites live another is a gross collectivization of an entire race and one of the major reasons why I hate multiculturalism, which embraces superficial differences rather than deeper and more individual variations among all people.


My point is, it's another difficult situation whether he/she will try to overcome it or not.

I never said that it wasn't tough.  Life is tough for all people, some more than others.  While equality for all is a very noble ideal, it's not completely practical - the best we can do is establish a society where one is based on merit, but even then some start out better than others.  Over time, though, you see a gradual shift in a race's socioeconomic position - just take a look at Asians in America in the 60s and today.  Why blacks have not emulated this success to such a degree is a combination of many, many things, and I'm not entirely up to talking about all of it either.


We also shouldn't argue about personal examples, since there are far more blacks here, blacks that are most likely different from the ones you know (and even I have personal examples, same reason as yours). I feel like these types of arguments just go around in circles.

I agree, personal examples are iffy, but it just furthers my point against multiculturalism (unrelated topic, I know, but still) that not everybody, even in a single race, is the same.  I understand, though, that blacks in Seattle are a lot different than blacks in some place like Alabama.  Shit, it's crazy when you go to Alabama and you talk to a black person when you're white.  They look at you like "WTF, why is this white boy talking to me??" whereas in Seattle, it's nothing out of the ordinary.  Regional differences seem to be much bigger than racial differences, in my honest opinion.


There is no one to blame, and there's no way out of it until society evolves. It's just life...

Well, to say no one is to blame is misleading.  There is always somebody to blame, but the blame is shared rather than all on one specific group of people.  That's what I try to highlight most.



yeah i'm not very argumentative, at all. i've never really posted in this forum...

Eh, it's all good.  I don't like arguing a whole lot either.


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I find it laughable how in the past Blacks filled in the void of the bitch, yet now whites are generally quick to succumb to guilt making them very exploitable.

Knew one guy who said something a little less than appropriate about black men dating white women, I was present but he knows I don't go on crazy outbursts since I'm pretty desensitized to open bigotry so he didn't feel uncomfortable (at the time). For a couple of days he was being extra nice to me, teasing me like I was his best friend ....just general shit to test and see if I had any animosity towards him. I didn't respond much 'cept for a weak grin until the point where he'd pretty much do anything to keep me from hating him lol. Most people can't really keep their negative opinions when they realize it will make others dislike them, that's why such hate groups exist. Can't do it alone.

Anyway this is how I see it...if guilt creeps up so easily on whites now'a'days because of past/current bigotry, a lot must have some sort of feeling of superiority (which I can understand) else they would not be aware of feeling guilty. While bigots who happen to be black or hispanic don't necessarily feel guilt when they practice said bigotry as from their perspective it is in some way justified.

Just something I've been thinking about.

Post edited at 11:02 am on May 11, 2008 by Headst0ck

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I guess some feel that way and thats sad an stupid yeah

I mean the only way  we can all live together is stop all the BS about whos a victim and whos a criminal and whos racist and whos not.

I see white ppl either get all afraid or try to fake to be nice or just avoid me when i walk in the streets and its like WTF.

We all the same we all have problems and stupid bad ppl amond us and we all just want to get by and live with each other. So whites dont have to act or feel all guilty all the time. All they have to do is treat nonwhites the same as everyone else and stop acting like all nonwhites are thugs or retards. Most whites who are cool do that and when they do its all good.

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Quote: from 721 at 12:19 pm on May 9, 2008

True or false. Are white people extra nice to black people because they have guilt that they captured and forced a group of people from their homeland, crammed into ships of disease, vomit, and poop, and ended up to be oppressed and enslave for long ridiculous hours and minimal living space and food for a good oh... TWO-HUNDRED YEARS before someone finally stopped and thought "hm... maybe enslaving other HUMAN BEINGS is... immoral. maybe... just maybe God wouldn't like that."

It's probably because they don't want to deal with a bunch of stupid bullshit.

and by the way my ancestors didn't come to the United States until after slavery was abolished, so fuck off.

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maybe some but not all. I dont think that the newer day in age feel that way. They had nothing to do with it. They just might be tolerant of other races and nice people.

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Quote: from 721 at 9:33 am on May 9, 2008

Quote: from GetMyspace at 9:28 am on May 9, 2008

I do feel guilty as there has been no act of compensation offered and all of this 'it's not the present black people' is all very well, but then look at Africa.  

 The white man tore it apart and he's never going to put it back together.  

 It's dreadful.


Yeah, I know! The government hasn't done SHIT for us black brethen >:(

I want my compensation! Black power! Down with white supremacy!


Ok so what do you call welfare and section 8 housing that is collected by the african american poor all over the USA. Would You RATHER be in Somolia than the USA? Honestly? Because if not for the suffering of your ancestors, you probably would be suffering now.


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