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It remains in the hands of my ex

Replies: 15 — Last Post May 9 5:53pm by Anonymous

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( Anonymous )

my heart remains in the hands of my ex cause he was the love of my life. Before I go to sleep at night I start to think about him the same when I wake up. It about drives me nuts. I want that part of my heart back but his grasp is just too tight. He won't let it go he just won't. for some reason he still has it and it's making it hard for me to move on. How can I get him to let go?

9:35 am on May 9, 2008

ferakin

Quality Control Engineer

dont talk to him for ages
resist looking at facebook/myspace pages
resist texting/calling/mailing him
find another man

GIVE IT TIME
x

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Why am i so paranoid about him?
Oh. THAT'S why.

OverTheAir

Yankees :D
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In order to get over my exs I usually stop all forms of communication with them until I've had my time to myself. Then later on I'll speak to them, once I'm over them.

Like delete/block them on myspace, facebook, aim, phone, etc.

Post edited at 9:37 am on May 9, 2008 by OverTheAir

( Anonymous )

I've tried that but he still is there cause all my friends are his friends.

9:37 am on May 9, 2008

princess timz

Quality Control Engineer

don't worry no-one gets over breaking up with their exs very quickly everyone goes at different paces some may take weeks some may take years.

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nik1

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I have been through that once....never again will I permit anyone to have that much control or grasp on me. Although it was painful for a couple of years in retrospect she did me a real favor. It toughened me up enough to make sure I was always 50% of the relationship....nothing more, nothing less. She actually did me a favor because my life has flourished and her's has been a disaster.

Think about the future....not yesterday.

FramingAPear

Dairy Product Addict

I could help you ;D

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( Anonymous )

okay I'll try to look forward but he still seems to drag me down.

9:40 am on May 9, 2008

OverTheAir

Yankees :D
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Well I had that problem too and I made sacrifices. If he was there, I didn't hang out with that certain group of friends.

I always had friends that were on my side so they would either hang out with me or I would go to a different group of friends.

I think it's just best to keep distance for awhile.

liilbiit

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gradually move to new friends then

cutiepuhtootie

Dairy Product Addict

you have to take control of yourself.. i was like that a couple of years ago when i dated this guy for 11 months and i thought i loved him and i would cry for a very long time and now that time has passed i wished i didnt cry over him.

dirty paws

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you have to let go. not him.

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Anonymous

i think that you are the one that needs to let go. you are the one thats still holding on.... maybe set up a dinner so that the two of you can talk and have some closer!