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Replies: 11Last Post May 9 10:41am by deathhousee
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My biological mother and father, I don't really care too much for, but when I was still in my mothers womb, she re-married another man who I was born and raised knowing as my dad, and then they divorced and I learned who my biological father was.


I've never gotten along with my mother at all, but when (the man I've always known as...)my dad re-married, I still considered that woman my stepmom, but not consider her my mom.

To this day, I've never once called my biological father, "dad", and I do not refer to him as such with my friends because he is a worthless scumbag, for the most part.


To clear the confusion, my biological father has been dubbed, "Weedman", and the man I call my dad is known as, "Mr. America", because he is an all-around great guy.

People close to me understand this tangled web of mine. Everyone else just gets lost in the sauce.

Sorry for the 'rant'. I had just got done talking to someone and tried explaining it to them and they got so confused.  

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It's really not that confusing and I don't blame you for doing so. I would do the same thing.

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s'alright, no ones family is perfect. Cant say my dad is an inspiration, the worst feeling I had was growing up to be like him. He was the sole reason why I refused a job with BT when I was 16!

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I get that.

Your mothers husband is your Dad.
You don't consider your father your Dad.
Therefore you consider your Dads wife as a step mother because of how your relationship is with your Dad.

So to speak.

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Yeah, my ma's a freak!!! I don't get along with her at all!
People say it's because we're too similar!

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i understand

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Quote: from UnusualOne at 1:13 pm on May 9, 2008

I get that.

Your mothers husband is your Dad.
You don't consider your father your Dad.
Therefore you consider your Dads wife as a step mother because of how your relationship is with your Dad.

So to speak.


Or, it's more so as if I were adopted, really.


My former step dad, I still consider him my dad, got a new wife, who technically, neither are related to me, but  still consider me blood.


My biological parents on the other hand... eh

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I totally understand. I like the nickname you give your dad. That wasn't too hard to follow, some people are just overwhelmed with little webs like that. Trust me, my "family tree" so to speak is hard to follow

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Quote: from Minnick at 1:25 pm on May 9, 2008

I totally understand. I like the nickname you give your dad. That wasn't too hard to follow, some people are just overwhelmed with little webs like that. Trust me, my "family tree" so to speak is hard to follow

Mine gets more confusing as well.


My "Aunt Christy" (is 23), but when her mom gave birth to her, she was 15, so my grandma adopted her.


SO, LEGALLY, she is My aunt, but cousin by birth.
& LEGALLY, she is my cousins Aunt, but sister by birth. (aunt had another child few years later)

>_>

Oh, and my "aunt/cousin"s mom, is her grandmother, by birth.  

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as long as you get along with the man you know as your father, i think it's all good.

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the point of life is to live! deal with it!!

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Quote: from deathhousee at 1:31 pm on May 9, 2008

Quote: from Minnick at 1:25 pm on May 9, 2008

I totally understand. I like the nickname you give your dad. That wasn't too hard to follow, some people are just overwhelmed with little webs like that. Trust me, my "family tree" so to speak is hard to follow

Mine gets more confusing as well.

 
My "Aunt Christy" (is 23), but when her mom gave birth to her, she was 15, so my grandma adopted her.

 
SO, LEGALLY, she is My aunt, but cousin by birth.
& LEGALLY, she is my cousins Aunt, but sister by birth. (aunt had another child few years later)

>_>

Oh, and my "aunt/cousin"s mom, is her grandmother, by birth.  


Crazy insane.

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I feel so dead inside sometimes

Good intentions are often misunderstood


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Quote: from Minnick at 1:40 pm on May 9, 2008

Quote: from deathhousee at 1:31 pm on May 9, 2008

Quote: from Minnick at 1:25 pm on May 9, 2008

I totally understand. I like the nickname you give your dad. That wasn't too hard to follow, some people are just overwhelmed with little webs like that. Trust me, my "family tree" so to speak is hard to follow
 

 Mine gets more confusing as well.  

   
 My "Aunt Christy" (is 23), but when her mom gave birth to her, she was 15, so my grandma adopted her.  

   
 SO, LEGALLY, she is My aunt, but cousin by birth.  
 & LEGALLY, she is my cousins Aunt, but sister by birth. (aunt had another child few years later)  

 >_>  

 Oh, and my "aunt/cousin"s mom, is her grandmother, by birth.  


Crazy insane.


It feels so normal though.

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