The problem is, she'll get mad at me for something that i think she shouldnt be, because she's misunderstanding my intent or the circumstances. Then ill try and defend mysel.f, and explain why the point isnt how she sees it, its different, and that she doesnt have to be mad over it.

Then she fucking starts attacking me saying im being argumentative and defensive, and that im not addressing her emotions, that i just keep arguing about the issue.

But honestly, if she is angry at me because of something, if i dont think its my fault wtf am i supposed to do?

It gets to a point where she'll say something like "youre being argumentative" and i cant even tell her "no im not" because shell tell me "see youre doing it again. Its like anything she says i cant fucking disagree with

now

if something is bothering you she probably sense it and doesn't know how to react so talk to her, tell her whats up.