The guy I'm going out with doesn't seem interested in sex, at all. We've been together 6 weeks, and I think we've had sex 3 times in total.
One of the times we had sex, he couldn't get it up for ages, and I'm fairly sure it's cos he was so nervous.
I think that's what the problem is, he's never had sex before me, and he's never had a girlfriend before me.
He doesn't have a huge amount of confidence.
Now I'm not very good at being uber dominant in the bedroom, I don't know what to do!
4:18 am on June 15, 2008
scott sm
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just do something realy sexy 4 him n keep talking to keep him confortable. the sexy thing will turn him on
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go nude and try touching him and sit on his lap. and talk dirty but sexy
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I'm fairly sure that both those things would really intimidate him.
4:34 am on June 15, 2008
emma19911
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Well if it will maybe you are taking things a little to fast. Sex shouldn't be jumped into! You say he was nervous, what do you expect?
Also if you have had sex before him don't you think that maybe he is like worried he's doing things wrong because he has nothing to compare it to but you do.
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Quote: from emma19911 at 12:56 pm on June 15, 2008
Well if it will maybe you are taking things a little to fast. Sex shouldn't be jumped into! You say he was nervous, what do you expect?
Also if you have had sex before him don't you think that maybe he is like worried he's doing things wrong because he has nothing to compare it to but you do.
Yeah, you're probably right. I never considered I might be going to fast for him! Thought he might just be repulsed haha.
5:12 am on June 15, 2008
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Tbh anon. you just have to look at it from all angles and it seems like you really hadn't. Personally i would want to slow down if things didn't seem right. Hope it sorts out though.
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Take it slow, step by step. Show him, teach him.
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Well if it will maybe you are taking things a little to fast. Sex shouldn't be jumped into! You say he was nervous, what do you expect? 
