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Should I go into this relationship over summer? and put it on FB?
Replies: 7Last Post June 17 6:59pm by QisQ
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So I've been recently seeing this girl over summerbreak.  She's in my hometown and we've hit it off pretty quick.  But I've talked to her about long-term situations, and we both agreed that, since we attend different colleges 6000 miles away, neither of us wanted a long-distance relationship.  That means we both agreed to split in August, when college began again.

BUT, she said she wanted at least a brief relatoisnhip with me.  She just sent me a relationship request on Facebook.

Okay, here's the deal.  If I accept this request, it might turn-off all the other girls that I know and some of them might move onto other guys.  At the same time, this girl is HOTT, and it could actually increase my attractiveness to other girls.

I have a couple of other girls in mind, who DO go to my college and I plan to ask the out after summer.  But I don't want to have them forget about me because of this facebook relatinship.  Also, there were 2 other girls who expressed interest, and they're so sweet and I defeinitely see me dating them when the new school year begins.  But I don't want to hurt their feelings or make them think i was a player.


what should i do?


4:13 am on June 17, 2008
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If you do not want to turn this first girl away, you could just tell her that you don't need some Facebook thing to define your relationship.  That way you can go out with her, but not turn away all the other girls.

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Lol, you are talking like if every girl loved you and if you started a relationship they will be so upset they will go to other guys, do whatever you feel, summer relationships can be quite found, but just remember not to get attached to much.

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Quote: from Marc15uk at 2:17 pm on June 17, 2008

Lol, you are talking like if every girl loved you and if you started a relationship they will be so upset they will go to other guys, do whatever you feel, summer relationships can be quite found, but just remember not to get attached to much.

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Facebook doesn't mean shit. And neither do you. Ha.

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Just do what you want and if it feels wrong don't do it.

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I don't think you should ever put your relationship status on facebook to be honest.

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Dawg facebook isn't that serious. Accept her relatinship status w/her and ditch it when school starts. Don't worry bout the other girls, they'll come back if your game is right.

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