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Quote: from The Modern Humorist at 6:37 am on June 12, 2008

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Quote: from Wakeupcall at 6:36 am on June 12, 2008

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Maybe they're just physically attracted to the other race. Nothing wrong with it. It's like if you were only attracted to good-looking guys. Does that create an argument? No. Shut up then.

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 I don't think you would understand this, to be honest. A lot of Black people, and some Asians have a lot of self hate going around.  

 As a White person, I don't think you truly understand the concept of self hate.

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I don't self-hate, and I don't find asian boys attractive...  
plus I get along better with white boys. no idea why. I have asian male friends, but we wouldn't consider dating each other.

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Have you completely ruled out Asian boys? Forever?

"I would NEVER date an Asian guy"?

edit: Nothing against you, because I don't know you personally.

Attractive is attractive, regardless of race. And quite frankly, I think it's sad when you see a girl or guy who refuses to date their own race (I'm not saying you do that).

Post edited at 6:59 am on June 12, 2008 by The Modern Humorist

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It's not an explicit opinion if someone happens to be attracted to a certain race, retard. And if you're saying that it's unlikely because it's not their own race, well they are the minority.  

And "a white person won't understand self-hate"? Wtf?  

 

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That's not what I said. I said it was very odd, if say you were a Black female, and you were only interested in dating/marrying White men.  

No, white people generally will not understand self hate, because what reason would there be for a white person to hate their own race?

European features are the universal standard. People of European descent do not have skin lightening, eye openers, and chemical hair straighteners that other races have.

Post edited at 7:00 am on June 12, 2008 by The Modern Humorist

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Have you completely ruled out Asian boys? Forever?

"I would NEVER date an Asian guy"?

edit: Nothing against you, because I don't know you personally.

Attractive is attractive, regardless of race. And quite frankly, I think it's sad when you see a girl or guy who refuses to date their own race (I'm not saying you do that).

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well, no
at the moment though, we're happier as just friends. plus i'm already with someone.

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Quote: from The Modern Humorist at 6:53 am on June 12, 2008

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Have you completely ruled out Asian boys? Forever?  

 "I would NEVER date an Asian guy"?  

 edit: Nothing against you, because I don't know you personally.  

 Attractive is attractive, regardless of race. And quite frankly, I think it's sad when you see a girl or guy who refuses to date their own race (I'm not saying you do that).  
 

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well, no
at the moment though, we're happier as just friends. plus i'm already with someone.

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Well, then you're definitely not what I'm talking about.

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Quote: from blufindr at 7:11 am on June 12, 2008

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Quote: from The Modern Humorist at 6:53 am on June 12, 2008

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Have you completely ruled out Asian boys? Forever? Â

 Â "I would NEVER date an Asian guy"? Â

 Â edit: Nothing against you, because I don't know you personally. Â

 Â Attractive is attractive, regardless of race. And quite frankly, I think it's sad when you see a girl or guy who refuses to date their own race (I'm not saying you do that). Â
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 well, no  
 at the moment though, we're happier as just friends. plus i'm already with someone.

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Well, then you're definitely not what I'm talking about.

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yee glad to know. thanks!

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Quote: from tell me again at 6:53 am on June 12, 2008

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It's not an explicit opinion if someone happens to be attracted to a certain race, retard. And if you're saying that it's unlikely because it's not their own race, well they are the minority.  

And "a white person won't understand self-hate"? Wtf?  

 

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That's not what I said. I said it was very odd, if say you were a Black female, and you were only interested in dating/marrying White men.  

No, white people generally will not understand self hate, because what reason would there be for a white person to hate their own race?

European features are the universal standard. People of European descent do not have skin lightening, eye openers, and chemical hair straighteners that other races have.

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Woahhh, "European features are the universal standard"!?   I think that's just politics.

But anyway, on to the original point.. I know the type that you're talking about, but you make it sound like that's the majority. I think that when people say "I only date_________", it's merely a generalisation of their preference. I think there are few people who deliberately rule out their own race due to "self-hate", or to having an inferiority complex about their own race.

I make this observation because it's not just Asian or Black people who say they only date White people. There are White people who "only date Asians/Blacks". (And there are White people who wished that they didn't look White.)

But you probably hear the former more because you live in a Western country and the ethnic minority would either say that they are dating their own race (which you'd dismiss as being mediocre/normal) or that they'd date White people (which you'd notice). I mean, it's statistically unlikely to hear an ethnic minority to say that they "only date" an ethnic minority that is not their own, eg an Asian saying that they'd only date Blacks.

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Yeah I seen that one episode on Tyra Banks were black men wouldn't date black womens.

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