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Kinda Complicated
Replies: 3Last Post June 11 10:37am by Karaden
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Last december I split up with boyfriend of a year. I'd been having a rough month and things had got on top of me and it all came to a head. We were friends for a while after and he introduced me to his friend who I sorted fell for as a rebound thing.

Basically me and his friend went behind my ex's back and ended up getting together and my ex was gutted when he found out. He said he never wanted to speak to me again. I guess having some other guy on my mind took my mind off my ex and didnt really give me time to get over him properly. Me and this guy were together  a month but I realised there just wasnt anthing there to keep us together.

Last friday I saw my ex for the first time since he'd found out about me and this other guy and he served me and my friend at the burger van he works at. He didnt say anything to me but was friendly enough to my friend.

Later that day I sent him an email saying sorry for everything that had happened n he's forgiven me. Now I cant get him off my mind. We had a talk on msn the other night and he said hes moved on and I'm truly gutted. He said he went on a few dates with  a girl I used to hate but said she wanted a relationship n he didnt.  Being apart from him has made me realise how much I still love him. I truly regret everythingt thats happened. I really want him back but donno how to go about attempting it.

I mentioned on msn to him about maybe meeting up some time in the future and all he said was maybe yeah one day.

Any help please!!!  


10:20 am on June 11, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2005 | 121 Days Active
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Just sounds like he is unsure if he wants to get back with you. You did break his heart quite a bit the last time... How is he to know you won't do it again?

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I spose, I donno wat I can do to convince him. My dog was put to sleep the month when I got with his friend and it totally mucked me up. Sounds sad but it was like i'd lost my best friend. I have no idea why I got with his mate though. He asked me if I hadnt have got with his mate, did i reckon we'd have got back together and I said yes and he just put a sad smily face

10:26 am on June 11, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2005 | 121 Days Active
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Well he has obviously moved on. What you did hurt him. You can't expect him to open up his heart to pain again just so you can relive the old days.

Yes, you regret what happened and he has forgiven you. That does not mean that all if forgotten and that you can go back to day one.

Stay near him as a friend, remain open. Perhaps your realtionship will build back up. But as it stands, you can't hope for it all to be the same.

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