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Am I Doing Right?
Replies: 17Last Post June 11, 2008 4:49pm by morrisonsMYmuse
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Yes - You're bad person 2 6%
No 31 93%
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My boyfriend and I've been dating for over 5 years. We live together. Well sense he started a new job I've noticed that he is changing. Everything is about him. It's like he forgets about me. He isn't as charming as he use to be.

I know people change, but he is really becoming a selfish bastard.

I don't work right now. It was agreed I finished school then went to work. Well, I'm done school now and it's time for me to work.

I was going to start part time, but with him acting all strangely and different, I've decided to go full time and save money in case we end up breaking up.

Does that make me a bad person? Wanting to save money in-case we end up breaking up?


8:34 am on June 11, 2008
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WhenILeave


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no not at all we all have to take precautions

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Isaias Arenas


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no its a good thing b/c ur thinking ahead of the situation and wha it could lead to....talk to him, hes probably stressed or somethin

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no.. your just thinking ahead. but you really should talk to him

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sexybrown0304


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No that's actually smart

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It makes you a clever and well thought out person.

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Firefly00

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No, you are just thinking about your future resources, that's smart.

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no man im coming to you for advice

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no. that's a very smart decision a girl can make!btw, i hate  that kinda attitude when a someone starts a new job, then all the sudden, everything turns upside down,  he/she forgets about anyone or anything except their "JOB"....BS

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You have to have money in case you break up that's only if you two are sharing a bank account that is but that's not a stupid idea its a smart one my mom always told me that and from what I'm seeing about your boyfriend I've had this type of guy before talk to him if he doesn't tell you nothing then he's stressed about something keep bothering him he'll thank you for that  some guys like you to chase them in that way, ask him if he needs some space but if he's being selfish he might go look for someone else I hope this is not what he does

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no, it makes you a smart person.

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Nope makes ya a smart person.

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It makes you smart. Its just upsetting to be in a relationship and planning for its break up. Maybe try talking to him?

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No, you're being realistic.

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