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Replies: 8Last Post June 6, 2008 9:30pm by zilch
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Okay, so me and this girl have been going out for several months (8 months i would say). It's been a pretty solid relationship and all but anyways that's be sides the point.

Here's the deal, she forgot her phone in my vehicle and I didn't know about it till she called me telling me that it's in my vehicle. Well when I got it, she needed to get an insurance number from a previous text message and guided me to the message over her home phone. Did all that, blah blah blah.

Afterwards, as I was in the message log thing I started scrolling through it just looking at the dates seeing how far back the messages dated. Just curious how much memory it had compared to mine. Take note, I never go through peoples phones or try to invade on anyones privacy. But anyways, as I was scrolling, I see just a couple messages to her ex boyfriend.

Well the date on this message just so happend to be on the date that she was out of town with her friend so I got kinda curious and clicked on it. Well it wasn't anything to bizarre, just him telling her the location his fathers funeral was at which she never told me when it was. They haven't seen each other from what I know in like a 1 1/2 years?  

Anyways, I click on the other and it says some shit saying like "guess you couldn't make it" or something and then all I really remember from her reply was saying how one of her classes got canceled and "Love you, will be thinking of you and your family".

I'm not really sure if im overreacting but I mean the "love you" shit kinda pist me off. I mean I know his father died recently but is saying love you to some guy that you haven't seen in 1 1/2 years neccessary? I mean, what should I do? the one time I get curious, I find this shit on accident? I'm not really sure what to do, I'd like to get other peoples opinions. I haven't said anything to her yet, not sure if I even should.

Post edited at 7:07 pm on June 6, 2008 by zilch


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Just ask about it.  It was the guys dad, she was probably feeling really bad for him.

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overreacting that's her ex and he's going thru a hard time...i do agree she should not use the term "LOVE YOU" loosely....

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um y would you get mad?
she loves you and wouldnt do anything to piss you off. shes just trying to confurt him.

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i think she's only trying to comfort him on his loss of his father, not trying to go back to him. don't worry. if she has been going out with you for 8 months, she has been loyal to you this whole time and i believe she always will. in my opinion, she's only trying to comfort someone's grief, thats all. i mean, you'd do that too, right?

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I figured it was just a way to comfort him, but I mean to me it's still her ex and that word shouldn't be used as loosely as that as I think he could take that in a different way if that makes since?

But again, the word "love" to me has never in my entire life been easy for me to say or loosely used around me.

Post edited at 7:15 pm on June 6, 2008 by zilch


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Quote: from kenny09876 at 7:11 pm on June 6, 2008

i think she's only trying to comfort him on his loss of his father, not trying to go back to him. don't worry. if she has been going out with you for 8 months, she has been loyal to you this whole time and i believe she always will. in my opinion, she's only trying to comfort someone's grief, thats all. i mean, you'd do that too, right?

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i wouldn't worry too much about it.

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Have you seen her say i love you to just friends and people around her like it really didnt mean much? Some people consider it to be something you dont say unless you really mean it and others just throw it around cause you care about the person. Do you know if she stayed good friends with her x?

If you ask her about the text message she might get mad cause you went through her phone. She knew that you had her phone, so maybe she had a suspects that you looked through it and your just not saying anything or she thinks that you would respect her privacy and didnt go through it. Do you know if she talks to her x at all? He lives out of town right? I am paranoid so i would definitely be worried about it. Has she said she loves you yet?

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Yeah, she says she loves me every once in awhile. I never really hear or think she says love you to her friends loosely at all... Her and her ex never really talk ever, I didn't think they were even friends. I just feel like she still has a thing for her ex or something. And yeah, he lives out of town not sure where now.

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