Here's the deal, she forgot her phone in my vehicle and I didn't know about it till she called me telling me that it's in my vehicle. Well when I got it, she needed to get an insurance number from a previous text message and guided me to the message over her home phone. Did all that, blah blah blah.

Afterwards, as I was in the message log thing I started scrolling through it just looking at the dates seeing how far back the messages dated. Just curious how much memory it had compared to mine. Take note, I never go through peoples phones or try to invade on anyones privacy. But anyways, as I was scrolling, I see just a couple messages to her ex boyfriend.

Well the date on this message just so happend to be on the date that she was out of town with her friend so I got kinda curious and clicked on it. Well it wasn't anything to bizarre, just him telling her the location his fathers funeral was at which she never told me when it was. They haven't seen each other from what I know in like a 1 1/2 years?  

Anyways, I click on the other and it says some shit saying like "guess you couldn't make it" or something and then all I really remember from her reply was saying how one of her classes got canceled and "Love you, will be thinking of you and your family".

I'm not really sure if im overreacting but I mean the "love you" shit kinda pist me off. I mean I know his father died recently but is saying love you to some guy that you haven't seen in 1 1/2 years neccessary? I mean, what should I do? the one time I get curious, I find this shit on accident? I'm not really sure what to do, I'd like to get other peoples opinions. I haven't said anything to her yet, not sure if I even should.

Post edited at 7:07 pm on June 6, 2008 by zilch

But again, the word "love" to me has never in my entire life been easy for me to say or loosely used around me.

Post edited at 7:15 pm on June 6, 2008 by zilch

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i think she's only trying to comfort him on his loss of his father, not trying to go back to him. don't worry. if she has been going out with you for 8 months, she has been loyal to you this whole time and i believe she always will. in my opinion, she's only trying to comfort someone's grief, thats all. i mean, you'd do that too, right?

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agreed
i wouldn't worry too much about it.

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If you ask her about the text message she might get mad cause you went through her phone. She knew that you had her phone, so maybe she had a suspects that you looked through it and your just not saying anything or she thinks that you would respect her privacy and didnt go through it. Do you know if she talks to her x at all? He lives out of town right? I am paranoid so i would definitely be worried about it. Has she said she loves you yet?

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