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hithere
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why not just ask to have 7-day warnings back? lol
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Brookie Chookie23
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Quote: from hithere at 8:59 am on May 29, 2008
why not just ask to have 7-day warnings back? lol
Exactly, or make a kind of temporary ban as an alternative to a permanent ban, because that's essentially what a ban is under the current system: a temporary ban. I agree that people can change, but banned members are given plenty of chances to improve their behaviour before they are banned, and the vast majority know very well that what they are doing is against the guidelines. I've explained this when this issue came up previously. It's the same principle with punishing kids. If they know that there is even a chance they will get their privileges back, then the punishment won't work. Worse still, if they know they are entitled to a return/reprieve, then they have even less motivation to keep their good behaviour consistent and less reason to think of a ban as undesirable or as a punishment. Most of the time, kids will improve their behaviour in order to get their privileges back and then return to their old habits. Bara is a perfect example of this. He's ok in the week or so after he is allowed back, and then he starts telling people to kill themselves again. ban noun 1. a decree that prohibits something If banned members are given second chances, then it's not really a ban, is it? It's just a warning minus privileges. Therefore, if you're going to have a system like this, you need to add an adjective like 'temporary' before the word 'ban' (or even replace the word 'ban' altogether) in order to more accurately describe the punishment.
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this sucks. I mean, I guess it's a try, but you don't have to be pussies mods. A banning should be longer than a week for starters, and secondly there's still ambiguity and subjectivity in a member being back and "supportive" for a "significant amount of time". I feel like I'm always unsure about what this site is trying to do. there's little to no quality control of posts except for what's downright criminal but then there are still policies like this one that are trying to do something but are still totally powerless.
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Brookie Chookie23
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Quote: from snowfish at 2:55 pm on May 29, 2008
this sucks. I mean, I guess it's a try, but you don't have to be pussies mods. A banning should be longer than a week for starters, and secondly there's still ambiguity and subjectivity in a member being back and "supportive" for a "significant amount of time". I feel like I'm always unsure about what this site is trying to do. there's little to no quality control of posts except for what's downright criminal but then there are still policies like this one that are trying to do something but are still totally powerless. 
You said it, sister.
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Spice
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The week thing was not put in place by us -- it was put in place by David.
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Brookie Chookie23
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Quote: from UnusualOne at 9:00 pm on May 29, 2008
The week thing was not put in place by us -- it was put in place by David.
Who was that directed at?
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The 7day thing was not put in place by us originally -- we were also working with what David has put in place for us.
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No, the point of making this was that the moderation had agreed on a four-month-wait kind of deal, and so that people knew what they were dealing with rather than having the whole policy one big confusion. And we are under no obligation to let a banned member repeatedly return to this site if they have proved that they are completely incapable of behaving appropriately.
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