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Think i like a girl i just met...how to avoid the friend zone

Replies: 8 — Last Post June 3 9:41am by Coreyt

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( Coreyt )

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ok me and my gf broke up like 2 weeks ago (rest deleted before i posted) and i met her much like most girls i like through friends and after years of being friends i tell them i like them and usually ended up in the friend zone. So today i started my summer psych course. So in the class is me my friend dorothy and two of of her friends so the psych teacher tells us to pick a partner and dorothy tells me to go with melissa and she'll team with her other friend. So i do and we had to tell the other about ourself and stuff and then tell the class w/o looking at the paper and she had a few jobs so i got through two of them then had to peak and the teacher busted me so i joked "Oh come on she has three jobs" and the class laughed kinda showing her i'm layed back and fun (my opinion anyway) so anyway after the class we walk out and walk to the main building together and then sit there and talk for like an hour. So i ask what are sudtle ways i can flirt show i'm interested in her without scaring her away.

She just added me to myspace so i looked she has a bit girly taste in movies lol but we have very similar tv and music taste so any suggestions? Also let it be known i'm not saying im in love or anything i just met her but i do think she is interesting and would be a good date

Post edited at 8:01 pm on June 2, 2008 by Coreyt

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Bougar

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What the fuck?

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g18

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okay i skipped the summary and went straight to the quesitns

sorry

uhm be flirty with her ask her to coffee or to dinner or osmething.
brin her liek a flower fromt eh garden not a rose or ne thing liek a ...marigold or a lilli or something

but cute and flirty

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jamescoleman

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shoot i'm kinda in the same boat as you

maybe skip the flirt part and ask her out?

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cheesygod

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Grab her boobs to show you like her.
She'll hit you back with affection.
Maybe her friends will also hit you out of acceptance.

Win win situation.

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xyztruffs

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touch her, (not gross, but like, you know, hand on shoulder or something, or poke, ahha.) and just talk to her a lot.
But dont act all drama queen ish around her, its a biiiig turn off,.

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QisQ

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Man you dont know how to flirt and your in college? Thats sad. Anyway, just poke fun at her. Tell her she's ruining her chances w/you. Be a lil cocky a lil funny. Don't show nervousness. Act like a man. And try to bring up when you gonna do something outside of school, get hr #. Stay away from myspace, it's lame and it not an substitue for in person talking.

Post edited at 8:06 pm on June 2, 2008 by QisQ

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penguincube

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The only proven way to avoid the friend zone is to act fast. You could crash and burn in the process, but each day you go without making a move, the friend cement hardens ever more.

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You're out of your element, Donny.

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( Coreyt )

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thanks guys got some good advice...and idk how to flirt because me making a move is a new thing, but i'm getting better w/time

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