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UltimaTaz
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Well...we get more in return.
------- LiveWire YouTube whore 'Cause I'm just a teenage dirtbag baby! Johncena54 pwns. I like war...It makes me happy!
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sugar booger
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I like my guy to make a lot of decisions. I'm indecisive...
------- Experience is just what happens when you don't get what you want.
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smmitch
Executive
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My bf and I always agree on an activity. Maybe there's something you both like?
------- Keorynsmith@hotmail.com http://slammin-arm.myminicity.com/
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8:17 pm on June 1, 2008 | Joined April 2006 | 172 Days Active Join to learn more about smmitch British Columbia, Canada | Straight Female | 1072 Posts | 3065 Points
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( jamescoleman )
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i'm just asking before i get into a relationship
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hellolovey17
Quality Control Engineer
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i never make decisions cuz i can never decide so he decides and ya i drive sometimes. it doesnt matter. its whoever feels like it or doesnt feel like it lol
------- just tessa :)
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tearsinheaven
Connoisseur
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i would say me & my boyfriend are almost equal. he's a gentleman though, so he usually pays, and he drives more often merely because it makes more sense for him to (although i'll drive too). but we make mutual decisions.
------- RIP my dear friends gone in '06 --like the angel
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( jamescoleman )
Dairy Product Addict
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so if i was in a relationship *with a girl* then how would you suggest i go about making it a 50/50 relationship?
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Chino
Dairy Product Addict
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Quote: from tearsinheaven at 8:31 pm on June 1, 2008
i would say me & my boyfriend are almost equal. he's a gentleman though, so he usually pays, and he drives more often merely because it makes more sense for him to (although i'll drive too). but we make mutual decisions. 
That is something I don't understand about relationships. It seems to have everything revolving around women: guys being a girl's walking ATM, her personal taxi, her free meals, her free movies, etc. I mean, it's a tradition that is hard to change and couples seem to be fine about it. So yeah, whatever rocks your boat. But for me, it just doesn't make sense to be paying for companionship pretty much. James, It is a bit difficult to have a girl offer as much as what the guy contributes to a relationship not only when it comes to money but when it comes to other areas of the relationship. But if you are fine with the traditions then go for it and enjoy, whatever rocks your boat. Guys seem to enjoy doing it all, cool, but for me, personally, it doesn't make sense.
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Chino
Dairy Product Addict
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James, Exactly but I guess that is how the tradition is in this part of the world. Guys giving it all, girls receiving it all. To each, their own.
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