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This is why everyone gets rid of assistance programs, because of stupid selfish people like you who can't wait and abuse it. The system is there to help girls who didn't MEAN to get pregnant, who didn't have a choice to wait and better themselves first. Girls who absolutely have no other options. It is NOT there for brats like you who want a baby because their friends have one but don't want to wait until they have enough money themselves. It's not something you can just take. There's only so much help to go around and if too many people start asking, the government will stop offering the help because it's too big a money drain.

If you want a baby, earn it your damn self. Get a job NOW. Tell your boyfriend to get a job NOW. Earn your OWN money like an adult that you're trying to claim that you are (and failing miserably). You want £500? EARN IT.

It absolutely disgusts me when I see people who are saying "Oh, I can have another baby if I want. Welfare will pay for it. I don't want to wait."

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Okay you are entitled to your opinion, but i found that a bit harsh.

I am NOT selfish.

I DO earn my own money. i DO have a job. and my boyfriend is currently LOOKING for a job.

WE are doing what we can. WE want a baby. WE want to be happy.

What is so bad about that.

if WE feel ready to have a baby, then why cant we ? No-one knows but us how we feel about this subject, and no-one can tell us what we want.