okay i guess the main thing i've been wondering this whole time is, why does he want to be with you? think about that, if you can't answer it then you should ask him. the only real reason i can imagine from what you've written is that he has fun with you. i mean, you didn't even specifically say that, and it's the best i can come with. i guess i just don't get how this has been working the whole time.
and how does he "send you on Cloud 9," really? can you explain with a little more detail why you think it's worth it to stay with him even if he doesn't change?
his personality is great. 
He's emotionless
how can he even have a personality if he's emotionless? i don't see how that would be anything but boring or annoyingly inconsistent. overall, i can't understand how this is relationship means so much and yet without those positive things you've written i could read this through and expect it to have fallen apart instantly. maybe it's the ultimate compliment that he does want you....
and about the carefree relationship thing: seriously what the fuck? what's the point of that? that's a pretty strong contradiction in my eyes, i thought if you wanted to be carefree you wouldn't want to deal with a relationship =/
yeah, sorry for sounding skeptical about so much stuff without offering much support. i think you have a legitimate concern about your relationship and i want to help you fix it; i just don't understand how it's been working so far, what's working right now, nor how the source of the problem relates to everything else.
Post edited at 6:44 pm on April 23, 2008 by hithere
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