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first time getting fingered
is it supposed to hurt?
Replies: 21Last Post April 22, 2007 9:17pm by true blue
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( SwEetBaBy13  )


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so last night i got fingered by my bf for the first time ive gotten fingered once before but it was more rubbing and it didnt hurt as bad as this time did..  my current boyfriend james was really pushing his fingers up and it just hurt  he asked me when he was doing it if it was hurtng me but i said no so he continued..  then after i told him it hurt when he did that and didnt feel good.   then he seemed kinda not pissed but i think i hurt his ego.. and he thought that since it didnt hurt the first time i got it done that he did it wrong and i liked it better. but i told him b4 it wasnt really as up there as he did it so i figured it would take some getting used to.. we were ina weird position bcz i was laying my head on his lap and my jeans were tight but idk if its supposed to hurt or not.. and how do i get him to not b upset.. and now he says he doesnt want to do that stuff anymore

please gimme some advice!  


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cowgirl1618


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It will hurt when there fingering you until u get used to it i've got fingered once, and it hurt. didn't feel good it hrut

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Khadgar


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The male ego is as fragile as you can possibly imagine.

If you don't like, tell him he's the best in thegoddamed universe, it would offend him. He needs to work around it, and know that he's not the be-all end-all of everything sexual. Once you can accept that, criticism is welcome.

Communication is the key to sex, and if you can't have that, you're toast.


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kiralynn2007


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you shoulda been on ur back and he shoulda been in front of you, that way, he gets a better angle and just tell him you liked it, (dont lie, though) and tell him you want to continue.

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allusgirl


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no mine hurt the most it was like sand paper it was on the beach

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asiasha xoxo

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It's normal. Your body has to get used to it. You should maybe play with yourslef, if that doesn't disgust you, before the next time the two of you do such things. Helped me.

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marchello


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i  dont no why but im a girl but i think fingrin yaself is a disgusted way even if a man wanks i think its a disgusting thoght but i dont no how to react on this as i thought it was a bad thing help me understand if its a good thing or bad thing to be doing?

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emin3mily


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honestly like the thing u said about the time before this, when he was rubbing you more..that honeslty does feel much better to a lot a girls. i no when me and my friends first started fooling around with guys some of them would just jam their fingers up there, and that wouldnt feel good to anyone. without lube, of course it will hurt. hes got to warm u up first.

and just let him no that u think it was the way u were laying er something, tell him it wasnt his fault, and the next time just give him a couple hints to help him figure out your body.


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JustBe


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It's definetly normal. Just tell him that it wasn't his fault.

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( SwEetBaBy13  )


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okayy but will it ever feel good.. or no?

cuz when i get off rubbing the clit feels alottt better.

and when i told him that it feels better up there  he was like i know that (in an obvious tone)  but he was like iw ant to go exploring  lordy lordy. =)


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Khadgar


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Hah! Wonderful. I'll bet he didn't know, because if he did, he'd do it. Nothing is sexier than knowing you pleased teh ladiez. Sorta.

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LyingEyes

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Your leg is supposed fall off.

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( SwEetBaBy13  )


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idk  i mean i told him and he was just like well i wanna go explroring   idk if he knew or not though.. maybe jsut to in the moment

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Khadgar


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Quote: from SwEetBaBy13 at 8:59 pm on April 22, 2007

go explroring

Exploring =/= know. If he already knew where everything was and what it idd and how it all worked, there would be nothign to 'explore'. Just my two cents.


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emin3mily


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well tell him that next time he should kiss you and play with ur clit, and get u going before he jams his fingers in there cuz that wouldnt feel good to anyone.

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