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Older then average
Replies: 5Last Post July 14, 2007 6:49am by dust bunny
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I am going out with this guy and his about 7 years older then me. I love him and he loves me but we agreed to keep it a quite because we thought that people would think the worst of us. The other day my friends kind of walked in on us while he was in my room and started asking a whole lot of questions. She said that she wouldnt tell anyone which is good but i dont know if i should talk to her about it cause i dont know if she will understand .
What should i do?

2:11 am on July 14, 2007
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Why would you want to hide your relationship from everybody? Doesn't sound any good at all.

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Of course you love him. Look, I don't know much about your relationship, but most teenage relationships lack love, especially with people much older than them.  

I'd advise you to think of what guy would want a girl seven years younger. If you're 23 or something, it's not too bad, but why would a 24 year old man want to have a serious relationship with someone who is 17? Even when the relationship does persist for a bit, it is usually unbalanced in terms of power and influence. What are the different motives? If you really, really truly believe that it can work out no matter what then fuck what everyone else thinks, but I'm telling you that 99% of the time these huge age differences do not work for very good reasons, and you should be prepared to deal with the consequences if you adapt that attitude and it blows up in your face.

Post edited at 10:13 am on July 14, 2007 by DoomMaker

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does he really love you

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yes we have been together for 9 months now

5:03 am on July 14, 2007
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you should have asked her why she walked into ur room without knocking!!

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