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Replies: 9 Last Post Sep. 6, 2006 12:22pm by Sarah0334
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( angie54 )
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I feel like I'm having a mental breakdown or somehting. I'm not trying to be over dramatic.. but I start college in a week, and lately I've been so stressed out, I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm losing weight, I don't have much energy, I feel like crying all the time. I'm usually so happy and energetic, but people are driving me crazy, bossing me around like I have no opinion.. my best friend, my neighbor, everyone around me. I think my parents think there's something wrong with me, I'm not really grouchy, more like sad all the time. Is it normal to get like this before you start college? I'm only 17 and I've always been in tiny private schools. Maybe that's part of it, I don't know.. but it just feels like so much is happening at once, and nobody cares, everyone's making it harder on me. It's hard to explain, but I'm not trying to whine. Just wanted to know if its normal to feel really sad and depressed and stressed out before college starts. Thanks...
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12:22 pm on Aug. 10, 2006 | Joined: Feb. 2006 | Days Active: 199 Join to learn more about angie54 West Virginia, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 2,204 | Points: 4,291
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vodkaIcE
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If it makes you feel any better, heres how I look at it. I went to a military boarding school where my graduating class was of 94. I am now heading to VT, where theres about 27000 fellow students. Additionally, Im doing the USAF contract up there, so Ill be getting yelled at while desperately studying hehe. Anyways, the way I look at it, and a good perspective on it for both of us. We have conquered a great challenge in our lives (high school) now Its time to take it to the next level and take on a greater new challenge. Be confident in yourself and take it head on with excitement! Message me if you got questions.
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12:25 pm on Aug. 10, 2006 | Joined: July 2005 | Days Active: 41 Join to learn more about vodkaIcE Georgia, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 635 | Points: 1,084
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gsrvtec
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College is an exciting whole new experience. It will be fine. A whole new enviroment and alot of freedom. just take it easy relax and breathe. You'll do just fine. Best of luck!
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12:25 pm on Aug. 10, 2006 | Joined: Aug. 2006 | Days Active: 61 Join to learn more about gsrvtec Florida, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 244 | Points: 2,832
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IveComeUndone
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It's a huge change... I have no idea if it's normal, but it sounds reasonable.
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blue child
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College is a big step, but once you settle in things should be fine. Just try to think of all the good things that you have to look forward to like meeting new friends.
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kira
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It's perfectly normal to feel that way before college. Especially if you're coming from a small high school. People seem to always talk about how college was one of the best times of their entire lives... I don't think they were talking about the first semester. I had a really hard time my first semester. Everything was new, classes were harder, I was in a long distance relationship, I didn't have any friends, I have much in common with roommate or the people in my section very much, etc, etc. But I forgot about all that eventually and it's now my mom who reminds me it was hard. Just try to take things slowly and if you need to don't feel bad about calling your parents or friends from home every single day. Maybe your parents and friends are a big agitated about you leaving too. It's often a big change for parents also to have kids leave and go off to college. Hopefully once you're there things will settle down between everybody since you won't be in as close proximity to them. You posted this a while ago and so by the time you read this you might already be starting school. If you want more support come back here and post again. We'll all be here to listen.
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2:34 am on Aug. 15, 2006 | Joined: Feb. 2004 | Days Active: 928 Join to learn more about kira California, United States | Female | Posts: 2,596 | Points: 17,418
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