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just sex? im worried
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Replies: 13Last Post Aug. 22, 2006 10:21am by Thuggen
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( sweet lips101 )


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recently ive been really thinking if my boyfriend is kinda using me for sex this is because of what my friend pointed out she said and its been playing on my mind since so i dnt no wether ive been over thinking bout it or just lookin into it too much. most of the time we see each other we do end up havin sex but i do want it as well its both legal for us so theres nuffin wrong there. i dnt reli wana say anythin to him cus he will more thn likley take it the wrong way or just flip out..i reli dnt no wat to do..does anyone else worry alot bout their boyfriends not just bout sex tho in general!? plz write bk people!  

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If you don't want to be used by him, but are unsure if he's using you or not, just don't have sex with him. If you wanted sex, too, but he seems to only want sex, it would still be the situation of him using you.

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wee nicole


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if you dont want to do it then you will have to talk tae him

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Everytime I see my boyfriend we have sex. If you think he is using you for sex - hold back for a while, don't have sex. But if you give in, maybe it has just become part of your relationship now? Eventually, most adult-like couples end up having a healthy sexual relationship, and there is nothing wrong with this.

You should talk to your boyfriend, he may well be hurt you're thinking that he is using you, he is better for clearing up misunderstandings and whatnot. And your friend should keep quiet. Maybe she is jealous?

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Post edited at 7:20 am on Aug. 22, 2006 by Spice

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If you want it to then theres nothing wrong with it. He might just love having sex with you cause he loves you very much.

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DemonSlayer2006


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hey check this. All you have to do is say "no" a few times. If he keeps trying to fuck you he just wants sex. But if he is like ok that's cool then he's not using for sex.

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Quote: from DemonSlayer2006 at 3:22 pm on Aug. 22, 2006

hey check this. All you have to do is say "no" a few times. If he keeps trying to fuck you he just wants sex. But if he is like ok that's cool then he's not using for sex.

Except I do that to my boyfriend and he keeps trying ... usually because I keep winding him up. Some men just have high sex drives.

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Quote: from sweet lips101 at 10:12 am on Aug. 22, 2006

most of the time we see each other we do end up havin sex but i do want it as well its both legal for us so theres nuffin wrong there.

ahh emm I don't know. I think its ok...its the same with me, sometimes me and my ex get into huge fights, like one time I didn't tell her that I had a girlfriend, and she got mad because she's like my bestfriend, so I went over to her house to apologize for not telling her that I asked a girl out...and we ended up doing it   I would say, make sure he's not using you though...spend a day where you guys just make out and foreplay, tell him you're on your period, and see if he still respects your decision (my ex tried this, but I love her soooo it worked out).

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Well if you feel like beeing used by him for sex you should talk with him. Telling him that you don't want to have sex as much as you're having now. If he get's mad or even leaves you, you'll know hes using you, then you don't need to regret you said that. And if it goes good he understands you and you wont be doing it as much. I think you have nothing to lose unless you also love him, but you should take the risks to see if he uses you since nobody should be used or feel like beeing used.

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XXsxypamyXX


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if u feel ok bout havn sex wif him then y complain, a dnt get it at all lol...... dnt let him use u tho, if ur relationship is only based on sex it wont work believe me!

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just hold out on him and if he leaves then u were just his play thing

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He obviously just wants to talk with you about your feelings, geesh why are you all about sex... lol so shallow

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talk to your boyfriend if he loves you he will totaly understand and if not you will find someone better

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Thuggen

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I might point out that your friend may be jealouse of the time you spend with your BF. Just do what feels right.

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