she sits around the house all day either on the computer or watching t.v.

she never helps out around the house.

i have bought her cigarettes (i don't smoke and neither does my fiance) and she thanked me by leaving cig butts all over my carport.

she pays no bills, and does nothing all day and refuses to help out around the house. and pitched a fit when i asked her to stay home one day to wait for the terminix guy to come out and spray for yard bugs.

she leaves dirty dishes all over her room.

she eats the lunch food i buy for my fiance to take to work with him because we can't afford to eat out every day at lunch.

she looks at me like i'm stupid when i ask her to help me out when i'm cooking dinner, and make a salad.

she has her boyfriend over all the time and dosen't bother to ask how i feel about it knowing i don't like the guy. (which i wouldn't care... if she'd at least let me know ahead of time so i could maybe clean a little)

my fiance and i both work full time to pay the bills and i barely have enough left after that to save and she ran both our cell bills up sky high. and i baled her out with my fiance telling him that i did it and ended up having to pay half his bill.

she tells me she's looking for a job, but i don't think she is.

she refuses to get her ged even though i said i'd pay for it.

and all of that would be forgivable... but she's got such a bad attitude. she's fuckin bitchy to me all the time. she locks herself in her room (with the cable that I'M PAYIN FOR) and ignores us.

i don't have time to clean my house every day and if she would just help out a little, it would make a huge difference. and i know that as soon as i mention anything to her, it's just going to start a huge fight and she's going to leave and i won't hear from her for three months and i'll be all worried about her. she really needs to grow up. but i'm getting so tired of her shit. i dont' know how to address the situation without severely pissing her off. HELP!!!

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"organized people are just too lazy to look for stuff!!"