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iimjustbadnews
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just try to feel more confident, smile, go hang with your friends, or better yet try to meet new people who dont know who you are so you feel more confident within yourself
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tomatosoup
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Wow this is amazing, I use to feel the same way all the time and use to have panic attacks in elementary school. The best advice to give you is that people like people who like them selfs.. If you dont give a crap what anyone thinks or says about you .. people will like that. I use to think I was the person just watching everything happen and nothing happen to me. Then in grade 8 I came out of my shell, I made new friends even a boyfriend... if you dont worry about it there's nothing to worry about. Message me anytime.
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whoa, have you been reading my diary?
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UnusualOne
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Firstly. You are not unwanted. I am sure somewhere someone always wants to talk to you, just share general chit-chat. Ask for advice, or even help you. I'm sure a few of those are on LW. Never feel unloved.. I know that's incredibly easy to say, but I went through a stage thinking that. It's incredibly heartbreaking and you feel like you're all alone, yes? You need to take some time out and think about why you feel like this. Your mother/father (I don't know your famiyl situation) will no douobt love you - your siblings if you have them. Even if they do not show it! If you feel like you're still waiting for your turn in life, go ahead and do whatever you've been waiting to do. Take hold and steer your life in the direction you want... don't disregard others, but count yourself as slightly more important as to be put first - even if this is only for a short time. Yes, you do need to learn to love yourself. Why should it matter what other people think? It mattered to me until very recently. Those that don't like the "real" you are not worth your time, or effort. They should take you for who you are or leave it, after all is is better to be hated for who you are than liked for who you are not. As for college - just take in the surroundings. Evaluate people before jumping in head first. You need to be comfortable in yourself before being comfortable around others. Hope this helps  PM if you want to talk!
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Xeison
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Quote: from UnusualOne at 12:03 am on Aug. 21, 2006
 Firstly. You are not unwanted. I am sure somewhere someone always wants to talk to you, just share general chit-chat. Ask for advice, or even help you. I'm sure a few of those are on LW. Never feel unloved.. I know that's incredibly easy to say, but I went through a stage thinking that. It's incredibly heartbreaking and you feel like you're all alone, yes? You need to take some time out and think about why you feel like this. Your mother/father (I don't know your famiyl situation) will no douobt love you - your siblings if you have them. Even if they do not show it! If you feel like you're still waiting for your turn in life, go ahead and do whatever you've been waiting to do. Take hold and steer your life in the direction you want... don't disregard others, but count yourself as slightly more important as to be put first - even if this is only for a short time. Yes, you do need to learn to love yourself. Why should it matter what other people think? It mattered to me until very recently. Those that don't like the "real" you are not worth your time, or effort. They should take you for who you are or leave it, after all is is better to be hated for who you are than liked for who you are not. As for college - just take in the surroundings. Evaluate people before jumping in head first. You need to be comfortable in yourself before being comfortable around others. Hope this helps PM if you want to talk! 
As said here, you are not unwanted, many people love you, try talking to them about how you feel, it will help, if you ever want to talk, you can always message me. i hope college goes well for you
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