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i'm losing my baby
why me :(
Replies: 23Last Post Jan. 9, 2007 8:53pm by MsCaesi
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i was around three months pregnant and thought everything was goin fine...my mom n dad were happy for us...me and my bf were exited n gettin along great...but then on the morning i was going for my first scan i had some bleeding and when i went for the scan they said it looked very abnormal, there was no heartbeat, the scan didnt look as it should and there was signs of bleeding and that i would most likely get some heavy bleeding and be experiencing a miscarriage...then they took some blood that day and i had to go back yesterday so they could take some more...we phoned later for the results and it is a miscarriage...we are all gutted....am i being punished or what?!

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I'm so sorry to hear that. Maybe, your body just isn't ready yet. Maybe your not meant to have a baby yet.

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checky


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im sorry to hear dat hun.
how old are u by the way cus it all depends on how old u are cus maybe ur body couldnt take it love

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I'm really sorry.  Maybe this is nature's way of saying your body can't cope with having a baby jsut yet.  I know this is really upsetting for you...I'm so sorry

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checky


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i lost a babby once lst yr

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im 18...they said that my next pregnancy will have a 95% chance of bein fine...i had an abortion about 2 years ago...could this have affected it?

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I was born twins, but I was the only one that survived. My mom had a miscarriage before that too. It is sooo sad. I cry when I think that I could have had a special friend. (My twin)

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Quote: from kazzy0300 at 8:44 pm on Nov. 6, 2006

im 18...they said that my next pregnancy will have a 95% chance of bein fine...i had an abortion about 2 years ago...could this have affected it?

No, i highly doubt the abortion would have affected this.

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it cud mabe of affected it hun

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Its nobodys fault nor punishment. Its just natures way of deling with a possible birth defect and way of saying not this time........ I'm so sorry for your loss though.

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Many studies have shown that women who get abortions have problems with their pregnancies following the abortion. It's more than likely that the abortion is affecting your pregnancy now, which is not to say that it will affect all of your future pregnancies, but it is most likely affecting this one.
I am really sorry for you.
I will pray for you.

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No, you're not being punished.  These things just happen.  Often, miscarriages occur when there is something wrong in the womb.  It wasn't your fault, believe me.  

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morrisonsMYmuse


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i'm so sorry to hear that. my sister has had a couple of miscarriages and it isn't easy.
possibly the abortion could have affected this pregnancy, but if doc says the next one will likely be fine, then i doubt that was what was wrong.
odds are your body just wasn't prepared for the stress of carrying a child.
i know it hurts... i'll be praying for you.

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i am sad .

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I'm so sorry to hear that.

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