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sophiethelibrarian
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Aw listen. Sometimes we all feel like that. As if everyone stares at you, or that you feel ugly compared to someone else. But you know, when you talk to the people that you think are like models, THEY hate themselves and think they're ugly and wish they were different. My point? Is that no matter what you look like, most people are never happy or wish something was different. So, you need to stop feeling so bad, and realise that someone's true beauty is not on the outside but on the inside. We all get the odd stare, or laugh or people saying hurtful comments to make themselves feel better - but you can rise above it. There is no-one else on this planet exactly like you - you're unique - so smile, and be brave and show the world how nice you are x
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I will pick myself up, Dust myself off
And leave all this sadness behind
I'll be fine, I won't be blue...
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lovefaith
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Dont worry about it, the way you see yourself is harsh everyone has something they dont like about themselves everyone feels concious, dont jusdge yourself. Not being noticed is not neccassarily your fault sometimes cliques are cruel like that there seems no way of getting in one, when your on your own they can even pretned you arent there. But you have to remember, this will sound strange although a Doctor said it, you are the way you are for someone else, the things you have your talents and stuff, so dont hide away grace the world with your presence.
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morrisonsMYmuse
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it's not all about what you look like. it's about attitude. i'm not saying you are ugly... i'm just saying that if you are a nice person, you'll have friends. if you are a happy person, or if you're fun to be with. trust me, it took me forever to learn that. becuase i used to be.... really pretty. but i gained weight and thought... still think... that i'm the ugliest person in the world. but my friends still love me. i still got a boyfriend who later proposed to me and you can bet your ass that it's not because of what i look like. pretty is a state of mind. i have to tell myself this all the time. if you spend all your time focusing on what you look like, you'll come off a superficial. and you're not that. if you're a good person, if you're nice, and you smile alot... people will notice that. because concitedness goes the other way too... if all you focus on is how bad you think you look, then that's what other people will focus on as well. i learned that the hard way.
there can be someone who is flawless when it comes to looks, but if that person is nasty or mean, that's what people notice. they say "she's pretty, but she's a pain in the ass"
pretty comes from the inside before people even start to notice it on the outside!
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"organized people are just too lazy to look for stuff!!"
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dreamweaver
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What you need to do is to discover yourself and what gives you confidence. A girl who has a lot of confidence shows more to a guy than beauty. If you're down on yourself and feel hopeless, you will be. But if you are confident about yourself and show it, people will take notice of that. Looks really has nothing to do with it. I mean, a girl can be gorgeous and all but if she isn't very confident, she will lose guys quickly.
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thecritiquevirtuoso
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omg, I have the same problem I m soo fucking hideous also. the best you can probably do girl is take it all in and explode on other people and curse at other people for your problems. crying and cutting also works too. I am fat, hairy (I actually have a disgusting mustache and I have to shave my side burns all the way down to my jaw, and I'm a woman) my hair feels and looks like straw, I am disgustingly dark, my skin complexion is hideous, I have a major acne problem on my face, chest, and back, and I am also very short.
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I jus wanted to share this with you guys. And Angeleyes82, Your not the only one that isn't feeling happy here. I'm not either and my situation is probably worse than your's. 
