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 Replies: 7 — Last Post July 29, 2006 9:56am by afichic4life9872
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Hello! My name's Allison, and I have a really big dilemma. I've been together with my boyfriend for two years now. When he was 5 years old, his mother passed away. Shortly after, his father remarried. Ever since the wedding, the mother (so I hear) has been a witch to him with everything. During the past two years, I have witnessed all of this happening as well. For example, she (with all respect) is a very big liar. She turned her entire side of the family against my boyfriend, for no reason at all. They all think so lowly of him now. My boyfriends a great guy, and does NOT deserve this. However, recently she has started acting rudely towards me. I was recently informed by a few family members of hers and friends of my boyfriend that she has been, since prom last year, saying "She is a bad person. She's stupid. She acts too old for her age. I hate her "type." Apparently she's been saying our relationship is a fake, it's going no where and she doesn't want me around anymore. I cried for days after I heard that, because none of that is true and I (just like my boyfriend) did NOTHING to deserve this treatment. I am a smart person, and a good one at that. And wouldn't you rather your son be dating someone who acts older than she is, rather than younger? Yes, I admit I'm mature for my age, but when did that become a bad thing? I cook her family dinner, babysit her biological son and even clean the house, and I'm a bad person? That hurts so much. In rebuttle, last night we composed of a list of things she has said and done to him to show his father, in high hopes he may do something, if she doesn't lie about everything. I didn't asked to be dragged into this, of course not. I want the best for my boyfriend. I dont know what to do. I'm on medication that easily puts you in depression, and I'm generally a happy person so I never went into depression, except for recently. She is destroying my life as well as his, and our relationship. I need advice, badly. What do I do?
Sincerely,
Hurt & Confused
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hoha15
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do wat u think is best for youyr relationship. if that means avoiding the mom then so be it. or you could confront her about it, even mention the way she treats your boy friend
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9:44 am on July 29, 2006 | Joined: Feb. 2006 | Days Active: 111
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glamourxshot
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Dear Hurt and Confused,
My advice to you is to talk to the other members of the family about this issue to make sure this woman doesn't get to their heads. Convince them that you and your boyfriend are good people and in a successful relationship, and that your boyfriend's stepmother is the one in the wrong.
If this doesn't work try talking to her and asking her why she insists on being like this.
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senorita smirnoff
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well, youre bf could try confronting her about the situation, its probably best that u dont say anything to her tho because regardless of the time uve been going out u would still be quite out of line to tell somenes parent they are doing the wrong thing. u could try talking to a social worker or counseller as they might be able to help you get ideas on what to do and how to cope, as well as what classes as abusing him so that u at least know ur legal rights, he could also try talking to his dad about it and see what he thinks of the matter
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iminlovewithyou
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Alit seems to me that if his father hasn't done anything yetwont... but hey this is just my feelings towards it. As far as his step mom being a bitch to you, I know how you feel. My ex bf and I had been together for over a year and his grandmotehr hated me. She only spoke portugese and she would talk shit about me right in front of me. But really, there isn't anything you can do but suck it up. If your bf loves you he won't care what she says.. especially since he hates her. Don't let it get to you just remember that you two love each other and you have each other and that is all that is important.
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pipersgirl
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she sounds like a bitch put here in her place
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homedogswhite
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This awfully sounds like Cinderella... but talk to people sounds like a good idea like some of the above of me said.
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