We'll take naps together sometimes at night if we're both really tired and Friday night we actually cuddled/slept in his bed for a few hours.  While we don't have sex and won't be (not while we're dating) I've noticed he falls asleep really easily when he's with me.  

I wonder if I should offer to let him sleep over once or twice so he can get his sleeping pattern back to normal?  I know he's a self-proclaimed stickler for obeying visitation rules but I don't think he cares nearly as much as he used to say he did.  

What do you guys think? Tell him he can sleep over once or twice?

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I certainly don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's okay with your roommates. (assuming you have them)

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Surely it's unhealthy to not sleep.

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Quote: from carnage44 at 6:06 am on April 2, 2008

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I certainly don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's okay with your roommates. (assuming you have them)

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Surely it's unhealthy to not sleep.

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What?

The question was whether it was okay to ask him to sleep over.

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Quote: from kendall716 at 9:07 am on April 2, 2008

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Quote: from carnage44 at 6:06 am on April 2, 2008

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I certainly don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's okay with your roommates. (assuming you have them)

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 Surely it's unhealthy to not sleep.

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What?

The question was whether it was okay to ask him to sleep over.

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I suppose I should read more than the first sentence.

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Quote: from kendall716 at 9:07 am on April 2, 2008

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Quote: from carnage44 at 6:06 am on April 2, 2008

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I certainly don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's okay with your roommates. (assuming you have them)

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 Surely it's unhealthy to not sleep.

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What?

The question was whether it was okay to ask him to sleep over.

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yeah I think she was confused lol.  I just ignored that last part and took into account her advice on tea (which was good)

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Yeah sure um I think theres something underlying in his insomnia if he can fall asleep easier with you I mean girlfriends are somewhat calming lol. Is he stressed out or something or anxiety or anything? Might explain awhole a lot.

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Agreed. Perhaps he feels more relaxed and at ease with you, if there's other stuff going on with him?

Honestly though, I think it's a good idea. I suffer from insomnia too (haven't slept in 42 hours or so, currently) and I always feel dead on my feet. Even catching a few hours with you will surely do him good.

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