The government obviously feels that your parents aren't worthy to be raising you and for not need to get help. While they get help, it would be a lot better to be placed in foster care, then stuck by yourself or on the street. I'm sure that if you have a close friend that is willing to take you in, this could substitute. Assuming that you can't, just go through the system and they will find a suitable home for you.

When you get to your "foster home" comply with the laws of the land. It may be significantly different from home with your Mom and dad, but every house has their own set of rules. Just be greatful taht they take you in during your time of need and go by the rules. As I stated before, you don't have that much longer anyway.

You should pack the essentials first off. Pack your clothing that fits you best. Try packing for all seasons so the new home doesn't have to completely replace your wardrobe. Take some summer, winter, spring, and fall appropriate clothes. If your foster home doesn't find your clothing appropriate, it will be their job to purchase you clothes that are.

Also you should take a few memorable things. I think it's appropriate to take some pictures of your real family and maybe some other small trinkets that mean a lot to you. Obviously you can't take the whole world, but you also don't have to leave everything.

There is really no way to really be sure. It could be anywhere from a few days, to weeks, months, or years. If I were you I would just be patient and not expect to much. Try to get along with your foster family the best that you can while you are there. Making friends with them will really help the time fly by faster.

That really depends on you. Do you find yourself happy with the thought of getting away from your parents? Do you feel free in a sense? If so, maybe this will be a positive change for you. If you find yourself upset and confused, you should just wait things out. I know that it's going to be hard re-adjusting, but sometimes things need change to grow. After all, nothing can grow without some rain. Sit tight through the storm and just persevere.

There is no way that you are "suppose" to feel, doll. It's all a personal thing. You have your own set of emotions and memories that all add up to the end of the equation. Don't feel strange if you aren't upset. Don't feel strange if you do.

If you ever need any other advice or have any additional questions, be sure to reply back and/or PM me.

Post edited at 4:37 pm on April 10, 2008 by kendall716

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