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Replies: 10Last Post April 8 3:51pm by bri872002
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ok well there is this guy i like and he likes me back. but some people say he is only in it for sex and that he will use me. but i don't think so and he swears he wont and stuff. and we talk and flirt ALL the time. well we were gonna make out today after school. he made these plans and i just agreed to them but i wanted to. but today after school he wasn't there. what would you do?

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im with stupid


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If he is going to use you for sex, then don't have sex with him.

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drjpk


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Be careful. Just cuz a guy promises something, that does'nt make it so.

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igotaquestion


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Well, i would be careful. Obviously if you ask him he will say that.

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him

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Desquish69


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well idk dont judge people... he could have a very possible and logical explaination for it all.. give it time... if he tries to make a move be all BACK OFF BIOTCH!!! =)

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flufnut


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well sounds triky, but before you start jumping to conculusons find out why he was not there he might have a genuin excuse, but be carefull, just because he promises dont mean that he is teeling the truth, why dont you wait itout, and see how long he can go without one of thses"make0out" sessions, befoer he gets so called "bored" then you will realy find out what he is like.

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Sinetta


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I think you should be very careful and definitely don't do anything unless you REALLY feel that he's the right guy. Plus, ask around, see who he's dated before, and find out what happened. Though, sometimes girls lie about that kind of thing because they either are mad at the guy or they want him back. So just watch out...

Hope you figure out what's going on with him! (And if nothing is, I hope it works out!)

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Lil Luva


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if it isnt true he wouldnt have 2 swear

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Jus lookin 4 some1 2 talk 2 so holla @ ur gurl

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him

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bri872002


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How old are you?  To be quite honest, he sounds as though he may be using you for sex.  If he "made plans" to make out.. that is extremely childish.  You two should be making plans to see movies, go on walks, playing frisbee in the parks and whatnot.  Kissing and whatnot should just happen, not be a pre-made plan.  If you are extremely worried about him using you for sex, then take things slow and don't have sex with him.  It's horrible, but it's reality that both guys and girls will use people for sex.  Chances are that if he is trying to use you for sex, he will lose interest once he knows it won't be easy to get.  Either that, or he will see it as a challenge.  

Basically, don't do anything you aren't ready to do or that would hurt you.  If you let him pressure you into having sex when you don't want to, chances are that he doesn't care a great deal about your feelings and that can be really emotional.  Sex can make relationships great and it can also drive some to the ground.  Have some good times, go on some dates, get to know this guy and enjoy spending time with him.  Do things as they come, but for heaven sake, don't make plans to meet up with him just to make out. Next thing you know, you are meting up for blow jobs, then BAM, he wins his bet with his friends when he nails you on prom night.

You need to look out for yourself.  If you're cool with a guy using you, then do whatever, but if not, then be careful and think twice before you do things.

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