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Eh, Sorry This Is Kinda Confusing And Lame.
Buut I Need Someone To Talk To About It.
And I Really Don't Understand Why This Keeps Happening.
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Best Day Ever. =]

You say you don't like one of them, but you constantly think about her?? But you in the LOVE with the other one, and once you get with her... the other girl doesn't even matter.

I think you might have a little CRUSh on the first girl. Its normal to have little crushes like you said....She has a super cute personality. With some people Personality's are all that matters in relationships and once you find someone that has a great one, its kind of hard, especially if you already have that special someone.

On the other hand, you have a girlfriend that you love dearly. Now-- The thing you have to find out is-- Who do you want to be with?? Maybe a break will figure this out. Also keep in mind breaks might make things worse in your situation. It might even mean that you need to not hang out with one of them for a while so you can get your mind and thoughts straightened out. Its normal for these things to happen, don't worry your not the only one in the world who's going through this. Some people even have more then 2 there debating over 0_o. Good luck hunny, and listen to your heart. I know you'll pick the right decision!

Pm me anytime!

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Wiifey- Stiicky Iicky---Hubby- Blackreign
Secret Lovers- xxfuked upxx & look over here
Sex Slaves- PS2luvr & baby gothica

If you are absolutely, completely sure that you're in love with your girlfriend and that you want to be with her despite this other girl, then I have a couple of suggestions for you. Firstly, try to make your current relationship exciting again! Sometimes, if you've been with someone for a fair amount of time, the excitement can die down a little and sometimes all it takes is a little something to get back into the swing of things. How about planning an absolutely beautiful romantic day for the both of you, hmm? Spend the day together and do something you both really enjoy, devote the day to each other and to your love (that sounds so cheesy, but I'm sure you know what I mean!). My point is that I really think you should start doing things together, reminding yourself of how much you love her and hopefully this'll help rid you of your crush.

I really just suggest that you let this crush run it's course. We all experience crushes, and more often than not they come and go with no problems. It's only really something to be concerned about if you start WANTING to be with her. If you go out of your way to spend time with her, if you spend time fantasising about her and all the rest of it, y'know? If things like that start happening, I think that's when you need to seriously think about your current relationship and your friendship with this other girl. If this innocent crush (because, at the moment, that's what I get the feeling it is) ever becomes anything more, then I really do think you'll have to re-evaluate your relationship. Is anything leaving you unsatisfied, are you unhappy with anything, just needing a change? I'm not saying you need to think about these things right now if you're happy (and I get the feeling you are) but, if the crush becomes something more, then these are perhaps just a few things you could try having a think about, and perhaps that's when you might need to have yourself a wee break to think about things.

Honestly though, I just want to reassure you that innocent crushes are natural in life, and people DO experience them even when they're in relationships. I'm sure you know the difference between an innocent crush and a not so innocent one, so you can tell for yourself if you actually need to take any action concerning this. If you think there's any risk that you might want something more with this other girl, THAT'S when to take action. Other than that, though, I just suggest you maybe try and liven things up with your current girlfriend, and try and be satisfied with what you've got and what you feel for her. :]
Feel free to PM me anytime though, if you ever need anything else at all.

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and i wanted to ride with Yuri Gagarin
as he circled all around my world

Obviously at this point in time you are unsure of what you really want. Think of it this way; is it really fair to Sydnie that you think of someone else as well as her? My advice to you would maybe be to take a break from Sydnie until you get tihngs sorted out. This would be the most fair to her. At least until your random thoughs about this girl subside for the most part.

Are you sure that you are really in love with Sidnie? It's always possible that you could love her, but have fallen out of love with her. Maybe this new girl reminds you of the Sidnie that you fell in love with. People tend to change while they are in long relationships. you or Sidnie probably just changed over time. there is nothign wrong with that.

You need to think about what would happen in the future. Do you think you could find yourself less and less attracted to Sidnie? If the answer is yes, then maybe you should completely remove yourself from the equation. Thinking about the pros and cons of these will really help you evaluate:

Taking a break.