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Question.
About self conciosu and assertivness.
Replies: 12 — Last Post April 24 12:09pm by blahbitch78656
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( lilac )


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Hey! I'd like to know, can you be assertive and self concious?
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S P A M killer

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ya. i am
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starzee88


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You can.
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xRaggamuffinx


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yeah.
people who're loud and obnoxious are often so because they aren't secure in themselves. sometimes they feel overlooked, so they act assertive and loud.

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Oh. But I always though if your quiet and soft spoken, your not asertive. And if your loud and talkative, your very asertive. I don't know, thats what I thought.
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xRaggamuffinx


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sometimes quiet people can be -more- assertive. making a point quietly and seriously is very assertive.

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Yes
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torissexy


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yes you cann
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I see. Well I'm self concious about my body, but yet ,just learned to be assertive.
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Alestrial


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You can be anything you want to be

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xalyndx

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its hard for me, i try to attract attention but when i get it i basically run away...

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better late, than never.
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Quote: from xRaggamuffinx at 5:06 am on Mar. 26, 2008
sometimes quiet people can be -more- assertive. making a point quietly and seriously is very assertive.

How though? Isn't it true that quiet and sensitive people usually think negatively and often get there feelings hurt easily? They get picked on too. Whereas soemone who is not quiet and sensitive, they can assert themselves and are liked. People respect them and care for them instead of non asserters. I was reading about this. Is it true? I'm learning how to be assertive. I'm sick and tired of people trying to take advantage of me. When I think about it, it bothers me. So is any of the stuff I mentioned here true or false?

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blahbitch78656


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yes. its all how u present urself
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