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I've gained so much weight!
Replies: 11Last Post April 7 4:38pm by sadnessness
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( dramaqueenxoxo )


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I've been so stressed and depressed since November that I've put on so much weight! I'm compulsively starve/ purge but lately I've just not had the time/ energy. I've put on weight and I look like crap... I just want to fucking die because I've failed. People keep coming up to me like "Helen, you look so healthy!" but I just feel like shit all the time. I'm probably up to 800 cals a day (I know that that's not normal but to me it's huge) from >100 per day. I've just balooned up.
I'm sick of feeling like this so I'm doing a total water fast for the next few days. Just to get my weight down a bit.

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7:04 am on Mar. 27, 2008 | Joined Nov. 2006 | 158 Days Active
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StephanieNicole


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um...you probly dont even need to lose weight.
starving yourself is dangerous.
plus, you gain more weight that way cuz when you DO eat, it all turns to fat as your bodys way of protecting itself from starvation

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the saddest thing is...as much as i hate you right now...i still love you...

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thecurious


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ive been stressed and depressed but for me it has given me a stomach ache and i really havent eaten much in the past 4 days and i must be loosing weight.

Post edited at 7:07 am on Mar. 27, 2008 by thecurious

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dethrose


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:| Continue to be stressed and depressed, if it makes your body healthy enough to perform basic functions.

But it's no good to talk to you like that, because you want to be a broomhandle. Whatever. But 800 calories is nothing.

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pipersgirl


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i used to have a eatting disorder and they are one of the hardest things to over come i went form 137 pounds down to 105 pounds over a 6 month peroid i was extreemly sick and just felt like crap about myself. please gain the wight back i know what its like to feel this way but your killing yourself!

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chocolatebutter


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I love it when people post things as fact when they obviously have no idea what they are talking about.

Not that I'm encouraging her to fast, it is NOT considered starving.  Starving is when you don't eat when you no longer have fat reserves and therefore your body must look to your muscle and organ tissues for energy.  In fact, fasting for a limited time can be one of the healthiest things you can do, provided you do it correctly.  Your body puts a lot of energy and work into maintaining your digestive system, so when it is no longer necessary (i.e. while fasting), your body switches to 'cleaning' mode.  Your system is then purged of wastes and toxins.  Breaking a fast is just as important as starting a fast and the fast itself.  

Dramaqueenxoxo is obviously going to attempt a fast no matter what any of you others say to her.  So she might as well be educated on how to do it correctly and safely.  Drama, try fasting for a maximum of five days.  Three days will suffice.  The day you begin your fast, DO NOT eat a huge meal.  When you stop eating, your digestive tract will cease its function, so that food will just sit there in your stomach.  Same thing when you break your fast.  Break with juices for a couple of days.  Progress to raw vegetables and fruits.  For each day you fast, you should dedicate a day to breaking the fast.  Drink LOTS of water.  Water not only keeps you hydrated, but it actually helps you to lose more weight; fat gets released in your urine.

For best results, research what you're doing!  Eating limited calories like that is NOT very effective.  Your metabolism will slow to compensate for the lack of energy and calories your body is consuming.  An alternative to a complete water fast is a juice fast which can be quite healthy and still keep you energized.  Intermittent fasting is also another option while keeping you healthy (eat Day 1, don't eat Day 2, eat Day 3).  But don't just eat anything.

Fasting can create an appreciation of foods you never liked before and in turn can cause you to eat healthier if you can stick to it.  But again, look all this information up.  If you have any further queries, feel free to message me.


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newmie66


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I know what you're going through. I'm currently recovering from anorexia and it's HARD. When I started to "bulk up" a bit, people told me I was looking so healthy and it was initially a bad thing for me to hear. Now I'm learning to accept it all for what it's worth. My life with an eating disorder is behind me. I've started to perform much better in my athletics and it's the things like that that don't let me fall back to my old habits. The best thing I can suggest for you is to meet with both an eating disorders specialist and a nutritionist. The specialist will help you find the core of what's making you have the desire to starve yourself and a nutritionist can design an eating plan specific to YOU and your needs. Oftentimes, they will design it so it gradually adds calories until you're up to your needs. Remember, for a completely sedentary woman, the body needs around 1600 calories a day. If you're worried about feeling bloated and such when you start eating again, incorporate some exercise into your daily activities. You could even talk to a trainer about lifting some light weights to build your strength back.

I know it's hard, but you WILL get better. I have confidence in you! Please don't hesitate to PM me anytime if you want to talk

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sadnessness


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believe me when i say that you are not fat.

800kcals is not normal, thats way undereating, so how could you be fat if thats a bad day?

you can get through this.

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