okay .. so my parents are way to strict. i cant do anything .. my dad cant trust me worth of crap. im not even allowed to go out anymore. plus the fact they wont let me date. how fucked is that. well .. i dont know.
10:44 am on Mar. 27, 2008
sosupkthnx
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There is nothing you can do, sorry :\
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RememberTheName
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I'm guessing you've done something to make them that way?
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TashaTiffany
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My parents used to be the same way. I'm 18 now, and they're still way too strict, but its gotten a lot better.
If you wanna talk about it, pm me. I totally understand what you're going through, and it sucks.
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Sara313
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My mom is strict too. Have you done something to cause this? I made one small mistake 3 years ago and she still acts like i killed someone despite the fact that i admit that i did wrong and i've learned from it.
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ari13
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that must suck
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Pinkfighter
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maybe because you did something that yo werent supposed to do and know they are holding it against you
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kirstiey
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I know how you feel! eee, my parents are on my back about drinking! & they use the guilty, I feel betrayed approach. Which makes me wish they would just shout at me.
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r not the only one
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Autumndaze
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Have you done something to make them this strict? If so what have you done?
If you didn't do anything to make them strict: Pull your parents to the side and ask them can they be lax with the rules. Can you have some freedom to go out and/or do things. Tell them that you are very mature(If you're not mature and you know it don't say you are) Ask them can they let you do the things that teenagers do. Maybe this will convince them. Maybe the fact that you came up to them and asked calmly will convince them that you can be mature and they wont have to be this strict.
If you did do something to make the rules strict Think about ways you can gain your parents trust back. Ask them this too. "What can I do? How I can do it?" Try and follow the strict rules and show them that you can be mature and go on go on dates. They'll probably see where you're coming from and listen to you and maybe they won't be strict with the rules.
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Quote: from sosupkthnx at 10:45 am on Mar. 27, 2008
There is nothing you can do, sorry :\
that is the most terrible attitude ever
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basically when parents are like that
You have to look at your life and say well...it IS my life. What am I going to do anyway?
Like theres some stuff you should just do anyway. Date. Keep a boyfriend and only telll them when you feel like it.
As longas you dont do so much that it gets out of control you know.