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When a member complains about a deleted post
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What do you guys do?

I explain what guideline was broken. (in my perception) Tell them what they could have said instead (if anything) and then tell them if they feel that their post was removed in error they can message a mod. (and give a link to the online mods page)

If I feel that I may have made a mistake then I will forward it to a mod myself, but that doesn't happen often.  Usually it's just some obscenity directed at me that I ignore.

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Give them an explanation.

90% of the time I get back a bunch of profanity or a long-winded description of how 'go kill yourself you faggot' is a caring, sensitive, thoughtful post.

At that point I either ignore them or direct them to the MERs.

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Explain if they aren't being an arsehole.

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It wasn't a question, it was more of a "how do you guys react?"

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Quote: from wolverineh8ter at 8:04 pm on Mar. 20, 2008
It wasn't a question, it was more of a "how do you guys react?"
they just both happened to leave out the "I" at the start of their posts...i think

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Never had that happen... I would probably explain why I removed it.

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Depending on their reaction.  I usually explain it. If they are like "STFU FAG" I'll ignore.

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Normally I stay calm and let them rant. Then I place a note on their profile proclaiming what a douche they are and copy-past the PMs.

That is why it's important to be nice, especially when you're talking to me.

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Quote: from JennyColada at 4:49 pm on Mar. 25, 2008
Normally I stay calm and let them rant. Then I place a note on their profile proclaiming what a douche they are and copy-past the PMs.

That is why it's important to be nice, especially when you're talking to me.

Member notes.... The silent killer  

I bet mine are horrible.

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I just explain to them why it was wrong. If they tell me to, "go fuck myself" or something, I foward the message to a mod.
Or else, I tell them to message a mod if they think it was wrong.

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I've never gotten a reply from removing a post.

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I let them complain, and contradict what they think is not against the guidelines. Never back down. I've had one even make a topic. In which I demolished as the like 3rd poster.

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Quote: from afmc011 at 4:53 am on April 11, 2008
I've never gotten a reply from removing a post.

Me neither. I feel so dejected.

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Quote: from Nikki at 5:39 pm on April 18, 2008
Quote: from afmc011 at 4:53 am on April 11, 2008
I've never gotten a reply from removing a post.

Me neither. I feel so dejected.

We could send angry messages to each other, pretending that the other deleted our post.

...couldn't we?...  

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Quote: from afmc011 at 5:57 am on April 19, 2008
Quote: from Nikki at 5:39 pm on April 18, 2008
Quote: from afmc011 at 4:53 am on April 11, 2008
I've never gotten a reply from removing a post.
 

 Me neither. I feel so dejected.

We could send angry messages to each other, pretending that the other deleted our post.

...couldn't we?...  

We could...but I don't think we should

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