ThePowerWithin
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i think that maybe talking to her, in an open, non accusitory way, may help, let her know that if she wants to talk, that you are there...and you wont judge her...also somthing that might help (operative word being might) is trying to educate her on what could happen if she doesnt get help. When someone has to hide something that big, ofor an exstend period of time ( i know because i went through a similar thing) the secret begins to eat you alive. For me, i got o the point where telling someone was not even an option, because it was so great. She probably feels very alone and could use a sister to talk to...and hey what do ya know? ! you are there to help! :)
i wish my sister had talked to me when i felt bad, just talking about other things, getting my mind off the shit in life helped...maybe try that, and see how it goes. If she looses any more weight, (depending on where she begain) she maybe in medical danger, so look into that as well...im here if you need anything :) its probably taking a toll on you as well, because you might feel like you have to bear this huge thing on your own...but your not...reach out to others and do what you can to keep yourself healthy while being a sister yto her.
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