Okay, I got to a state school that is VERY strict with alcohol. Most people get caught, it is very tight there. If you live in the dorms, it's even worse and the RAs are very stern. It's frankly easy to get caught. My friend and I came back to my room in the dorms on a Saturday night at like 2:30 in the morning. We were just working at a school-function dance (compeltely sober, neither of us drink).
I tried to open the door, but my roommate would not let me in. She kept locking it and said "Go away" or "Hold on" really rudely. My friend had NEVER met her before and thought she was a bitch. Then I said "No, she's drunk"
It turns out that her boyfriend was there that night...they were both naked. My theory is that they had sex earlier and then fell asleep. I think we woke them up when we got there...But she still wouldnt let us in after lots of knocking, we gave them plenty of time to get dressed. (PS - my roomie never came back drunk OR got it on with her bf without my knowing ahead of time)
Then she started stuttering and saying "No, stop it! It hurts, stop, it hurts." So my friend thought she was being RAPED! And it did sound like that. Remember, my friend never met her and she happens to be an RA from a different building. So she slammed on the door and Demanded that she let us in...cause she was still locking it and holding the door shut whenever I tried to push it open.
She finally let us in and she was blacked out, doesnt remember anything. I got my stuff and slept at my friend's room that night, but let me tell you.....If my friend had not been there, I would have gotten another RA and I guarantee that she would have gotten an underage, my roomie and her boyfriend both. And by shere luck, no other RA heard us yelling at her at 2 AM, even though we woke up all the residents on my floor and they were concerned.
Well, would it have been ok for me to get an RA in that situation if my friend wasn;t there, or do you think i could have handled it? Basically, if any other RA were involved, she would have gotten an underage, no doubt.
Would that have been the right thing or the wrong thing? Doesnt that sound weird to you???